Is it normal for bf to be really angry a friend kissed me on the lips?

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My boyfriend and I were at a party. On leaving, I always give my close friends a hug and a kiss on the cheek. :) There was a particular male friend who I said *Give me a 'bye-hug'* to and I normally give him a peck on the cheek. As I do with all my friends and family. However, my friend came in and planted closed-lip smacker on my mouth, when my bf was there. My friend is quite camp (has bi tendencies) and I have known him for years, and don't think he meant anything by it! My boyfriend went crazy, saying how disrespectful it was to him, me and that he crossed the line. I think he was making a big deal of things. I wasn't entirely comfortable that friend kissed me on the lips, but I don't think he was being *sleazy*. My boyfriend says he better not run into this friend again. Apparently my friend couldn't take his eyes off me the whole night. I didn't even notice this, this is according to my bf and another lassie pal. I seriously thought my boyfriend was gonna do some harm to this guy for what he done. Is it normal for boyfriend be utterly raging at this? Also, can lip-kisses be innocent-natured, when lips are closed. My boyfriend said that I was giving my friend too much leeway and that he is a sleazy creep... Hmm...

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  • Sico
    12 years ago

    Ok this is honestly bs, I'm a boy and if my gf does something like that we prolly won't talk for a week. Thing is most boys are jealous, this is why you don't talk about an ex around us and what your friend did was indeed disrespectful just think, what if a girl kissed your bf on his lips, how would that make you feel?

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    • DestroyedSepulchre
      12 years ago

      I find that kinda petty, considering it wasn't me who done the lip-kissing. So, yeah if a guy fell out with me for that, the relationship would be a pointless endeavour, anyways. The boyfriend wasn't mad at me, just at my friend.

      I know how I would feel if someone planted a kiss on my boyfriends lips, but as long as he didn't reciprocate, I wouldn't find it a big deal. I'd be irked, but not to the point of violence. And as Georgienne says *I'd just suck it up*, take it as it comes. And make it known I wasn't happy with the friend. But then, just move on, forgive and forget.

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    If a girl kissed a boyfriend on the lips it would be the girl's fault, not the boyfriend's... You might be mad at him, but you've no right to be.
    Her friend kissed her, she didn't kiss back and she wasn't expecting it so didn't have time to refuse or push him away. Shit happens. Boyfriend needs to suck it up.

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    • DestroyedSepulchre
      12 years ago

      Hiya,thankys. That is my view on the situation, too. I think I was just looking for clarification?! :) xxx

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I'd be pissed and mad if I saw that happen with my girlfriend, accident or no accident. So op, how would you feel if this happened to your boyfriend? One of his females friends ''accidentally'' kissed your boyfriend on his lips? I'm sure you'd be mad or at least pissed.

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    • DestroyedSepulchre
      12 years ago

      Hmm. Perhaps an odd thing? My boyfriend has absolutely no friends, whatsoever. He is a highly entertaining, funny and sociable being. He just doesn't tend to like people enough to 'become friends'.

      Yeah, I'd be annoyed but not to the extent where I would want her to just *disappear* and do physical damage to the girl. I would just say my piece and let it go, I suppose. Especially if they were mainly *batting for the other side*- as they say and had been a long-standing friend.

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  • koko91
    12 years ago

    Is it normal for bf to be really angry a friend kissed me on the lips? i'll just answer the question , your bf should beat the crap outta of your friend

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago

    I admire your boyfriend for not kicking his disrespectful ass. Oh and I would also have a problem with you for not saying anything. Like "wtf are you doing?!?"

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  • fredted
    7 years ago

    I would just beat the hell off him right on the spot

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  • LonniLove
    10 years ago

    duhhh he would b mad dumbass!!!wouldnt u b mad if some slut came and started sucking his face?

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  • Mason334
    11 years ago

    Yes it's normal take it from a boy a 12 year old boy but a. Boy I would get mad if my gf kissed another guy because it means she 1.is cheating 2. I love her and she betraid me is the Sanrio do yes I'd be mad

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  • iintolovethissite
    12 years ago

    i agree with bored guy. i would have kikd f**kers ass if a guy did that to my gf infront of me, and id be fcukd of with her for defending it. lol

    my 2 cents :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I love it how when a the girlfriend does it then everyone is ok but I have seen a few like this when its a girl that kissed the boyfriend and the commenters were like "OMG thats wrong dump him". Somehow I think if it happened to the boyfriend you wouldnt be so happy either.

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  • paperplanecapn
    12 years ago

    I woulda kicked his ass.

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  • DestroyedSepulchre
    12 years ago

    Oh, I did actually confront my friend on it. When he was sober, though- as I felt it was pointless- rambling on to someone who was a wee bit tiddly, on their booze. I just thought it wasn't something where my boyfriend should wanna kill this guy's ass.

    And yeah, I thought of it as a drunken accident. But my boyfriend is pretty adamant that he doesn't want to see the guy again, or have me see him. So I have just dropped contact with this friend altogether. I dote on my boyfriend, and love him enormously.

    I was just wondering, because, although not comfortable with lip-kisses (to friends and family)- I think it can be deemed acceptable as a greeting/ goodbye- by some people... Its not something I would do, at all, though.

    Its just we both view it very differently. He finds it *unforgiveable*... :)

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    • Problemchild21
      12 years ago

      depends on the culture sweetheart and also hugs are ok but being anymore affectionate with another guy can make boyfriends angry as hell. I can barely stand it when my girl even hugs other guys myself. I just keep cool and if i see anything off how one of her guy friends acts when she hugs him i confront him about it later.

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    It wasn't sleazy of him.
    It was somewhat disrespectful though. If he knew your boyfriend was present, or even that you HAD a boyfriend, it was a sore move. Also, while he probably didn't, he should've known your boyfriend tolerance towards these things beforehand.
    It was a poor judgement on your friends behalf, but it was an accident and all three of you should treat it as such.
    Your boyfriend is probably more alarmed than angry, as your bi friend doesn't seem much of a threat.

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  • Josie_57
    12 years ago

    why did you post this twice?

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    • DestroyedSepulchre
      12 years ago

      Hiya, I was just editing the post and the site submitted the it twice.

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    • chewy
      12 years ago

      exactly im wondering the same thing

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