Is it normal for best friends not to talk everyday?

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If your best friend doesn't reply to your texts is it normal? or does it mean your best friend doesn't treat you as a best friend? My best friend is not replying to some of my texts or maybe because it doesn't seem important?

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Based on 30 votes (26 yes)
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  • howaminotmyself
    11 years ago

    One thing I love about my best friends is that I don't have to talk to them everyday.

    If a text isn't urgent, why reply immediately? My friends know not to take it personally. And if it is urgent, call me. Don't sit and stew over a non reply.

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    • PapzBSlim
      11 years ago

      Exactly. Are you a guy? I notice us guys are like that yet my girlfriend and her best best friend have to reply so quickly or they react like they are losing their friendship.

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      • howaminotmyself
        11 years ago

        I'm a girl. But I'm not the type to throw out the term "best friend" unless they feel like family.

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        • PapzBSlim
          11 years ago

          There are special girls like you out there, not many that I have run across though.

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          • howaminotmyself
            11 years ago

            Well thanks, but I'm not that unique.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    *Checks phone -Five unread messages from best friend* O_O *slips out of thread*

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  • weirdppl
    11 years ago

    Same experience, and I realised I was being over obsessive, too full of anger and emotion. My texts were sometimes really hard to reply and I think she didn't want to deal with my emotions. Anyway, it's possible there's a reason why the person is not replying. too much effort if its a hard text, if its easy its either insignificant or she/he doesn't want you to send so many so she/he ignores the texts hoping they will stop, or she/he simply forgets.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    Sometimes I don't have enough time or just forget to reply to texts or to return calls but I still love my friends. Thanks God I didn't have a mob the weeks before. It was good to be free.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    You should go to your firend and say WHY THE F*&^ ARE YOU NOT TEXTING ME ?

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  • iEatZombies_
    11 years ago

    It's very healthy for your friend to do this.

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