Is it normal for an fwb to kiss you the moment you two meet?

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I had an FWB and whenever we would meet, we'd end up hugging kissing and/or holding hands and maybe doing stuff before finding somewhere to go and do the obvious (Although he loved being in public, which I came to discover I REALLY REALLY hated).

I'd try making conversation with him - as much as a socially inept person can - and he'd kiss me if he wanted me to stop talking and not reveal much about himself.
Surely if he wanted to be friends with benefits, he'd actually try and see that I was making friends with him?!

He'd always have his hands on me (Even when I was visibly upset about something and didn't want him to touch me).

One time, I said I was thirsty. His response? TOUNGING ME.

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  • iEatZombies_
    11 years ago

    He doesn't want to be your friend, he wants to fuck you.
    You're taking all the hard work out of it for him. Why should he pretend to be anything else?

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    That is what friends with "benefits" means. Well, on some level.

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    • shade_ilmaendu
      11 years ago

      True enough, still sounds kinda dick. You still shouldn't be getting all gropey on someone whenever you want. Being FWB or in a relationship doesn't just mean the person can have you whenever they want. XD

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  • dude_Jones
    11 years ago

    You may not know this, but you could train this guy like a dog. Snap your fingers and insist on obedience. Be very coy, be very firm. Tell him, "Bad boys who obey are better than good boys who don't".

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    "and he'd kiss me if he wanted me to stop talking and not reveal much about himself."

    That's kind of cute still.

    If I want my girlfriend to stop talking I just say "stop talking", and she stops.

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    What is an FWB?

    FWB=Fat White Boy?

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    • haha_think_again_21
      10 years ago

      FWB= Friends With Benefits

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  • shakalaka
    11 years ago

    I think that's cute.

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  • Roberto
    11 years ago

    I don't know if this is total bullshit I'm saying but he might see you more as a fuckbuddy than a fwb. Or then he sees you as more than a fwb and has a hard time saying it.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Mmm... all these comments are oddly positive. I just want you to keep in mind that FBW goes both ways. It shouldn't be him getting his way all the time. If you don't like something, you can say no. It's a 2 way street, and if he's benifiting from something that makes you uncomfortable, you might want to consider finding a new "friend"

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  • kittylitter101
    11 years ago

    Awwww he wanted to be your boyfriend :3

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    Sounds like your more than friends! Much more!

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