Is it normal for an attractive girl not getting flirted by guys?

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Hi,

I am soon 20 years old, good-looking black girl with a nice attractive body and cute face with black curly hair and I dont get much male attention, is it normal?
I am a free spritied, happy, friendly and a bit crazy ( sometimes a lot crazy) person and I am almost always myself with anyone especially strangers i met on partys or at the clubs. I like getting to know new people and always saying hi/hello. But often guys dont really hit on me or flirt with me, they mostly leaves me alone and talk to my friends or other girls beside me and i dont get it.
I know i am good looking, small waist, big breats, a bit curvy, nice ass and long smooth legs and thats just body but still no male who talks to be and intrested in being with me whether or not sexual or just because he likes me.
I had my very first boyfriend when I was 18, and he was and still am my first in everything about sex and relationships. I still love him though we are an ocean apart now (literally) and therefore i need someone to have fun with and to forget him but there is none!
Yes, I get looks, I have noticed planty times guys checking me out when i look hot och even normal but still they dont do anything about it, even when I show I am intrested. Both in daily or in the clubs when i look extra hot. Maybe its because i live in sweden? Maybe not those few times a guy did flirted with me he's always from another country. Maybe I should move and live in some other country well i have always wanted that anyway
back to my main question,
Is it normal for an attractive girl not getting much attention/flirting from other guys?
is it something wrong with me? I dont believe so really but it sure makes me doubt sometimes ...

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  • Indestinguishable
    12 years ago

    Yeah, you're in Sweden and you frequent clubs... you should be thankful no one has hit on you. What a waste that would be! Come back to the states. We'd love to have you. There are women out there that I believe to be literally too good for any man. lol you and hopeful seem to show some of the early signs. If a guy thinks you're out of his league. most won't even try. So if you're attractive, intelligent, cultured AND outgoing,... yep, you're too good to be true. haha jk someone will come along soon.

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    • Fadina
      12 years ago

      hahaha i like you!

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  • mosdefn8ly
    12 years ago

    Maybe its because they're intimidated by you? They assume you have many guys interested in you so they don't initiate.

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    • deb
      12 years ago

      Yeah, I agree.

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  • Noonesperfect
    12 years ago

    Less black people in sweden?

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  • luckynj
    12 years ago

    It may be issue in Sweden. Move to USA and get more attention-:)))

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  • ifuckedyourdaughter
    7 years ago

    Maby (from what you said such a fine girl like you)all guys think you have a big jock or whatever and are intimidated theyll get there ass beat

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  • Terrik1337
    8 years ago

    I've heard that sometimes men assume you are out of their league and don't try. I know I do this. I'll go for the 6 or 7 when there is a 9 or 10 sitting at the bar alone. Its cowardly of me to do this, but it's just what happens. You may have to be the instigator if this is the case. I know I would love it if a beautiful girl randomly came up to me and started a conversation. I might have trouble responding, but that's a different story.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    have you tried initiating conversations and stuff? try this before you make the big move. some guys are shy

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  • kittenlittle
    12 years ago

    probably because you black or maybe your intimidating or it could be that you are not as gook looking as you think you are. if you come to america you will have lots of guys flirting with you

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  • Fadina
    12 years ago

    haha yes there is less black people in sweden where most people are blond, brunette and all white but i live somewhere thats has more black people but unfortunateley i dont se or meet them much XD

    Maybe i have heard from a male friend that guys sometimes assume tht some girls are taken XD

    hahaha maybe!

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  • Hopeful
    12 years ago

    I am in the same boat. I am in my 30s & have been told by many, "You're so beautiful. I can't believe you're not married or don't have a boyfriend." I also have a very outgoing personality, & I have a heart as big as all get out. I take care of myself (wear make-up, dress nice, fix my hair, have pretty teeth). I just don't get it. I have asked some of my male friends, & they can't figure it out either. I smile & speak to people, so it's not that I appear "snobbish". It is definitely a mystery. The best advice I can offer is to not drive yourself crazy trying to figure it out...I have given up on that!

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    • Fadina
      12 years ago

      totally a mystery! haha yeah i will but i have learned that it is always when you finally given up and dont even care anymore that someone special and good pops out of nowhere! I really hope it happens to you soon ! =)

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