Is it normal for a young girl to compulsively masturbate?

As a young girl, about 4-6 years old, I would compulsively masturbate to very strange things. Not only would I masturbate to strange things, but I could only masturbate to them. [NSFW:/ These things include exhibitionist-like-situations and older men -- always ages 35-40, overweight, and caucasian. For example, I would masturbate in front of my bedroom window so my older, age 40+, neighbor would watch me. I would show my chest to passing men in the back of our family car. When I wasn't doing exhibitionist related things I would be masturbating compulsively to the sexual abuse of myself with men. /:NSFW] Probably 15-20 times a day.

I'm now 18 years old and have tremendous issues with my sexuality. The sexual-abuse-based compulsive masturbation persists and is causing me great distress. I can't even obtain pleasure without thinking of those things happening to me. And pleasure from people I am attracted to in a healthy loving way only result in severe anxiety and tears.

Background information: I was told that it was very likely that I was sexually abused in my early life. (Reasonable suspicion. E.g. getting sexually excited when changing my diaper. Staying too long in the bathroom when bathing me. Watching other people undressing me. Unnecessary contact during these times.) However, since the suspected perpetrator was never /caught/, certainty can't be achieved. Despite the lack of proof, I've always had vague memories of it happening until lately when I have been second guessing myself.

All in all, is it normal for someone /that/ young to be /that/ sexually inappropriate, especially with those kinds of things, without any prior exposure.

P.S. Please try to look at the question objectively without considering that I could have been abused as a young girl.

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46% Normal
Based on 13 votes (6 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella

    Yeah, none of that's normal. You need to seek professional help ASAP! What you're describing sounds nightmarish and basically the opposite of arousing or pleasurable. In my opinion you are most likely an abuse survivor.

    I'm sorry for whatever happened to you. I personally think there is no punishment too severe for child molesters. Seriously, I could shoot a child molester in the face, and all I'd feel is the recoil.

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    • hydroflask

      Thank you for your opinion. It is really difficult for me to deal with. Like you said, reliving a nightmare.

      I agree. It's devastating how they take our innocence away.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Thanks so much for your reply. I wish you all the best, I really do!

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  • Is it normal for kids to masturbate? Probably.

    Is it normal for kids to do it THAT damned much, or to engage in any of the behaviors you described? FUCK NO!!!!!

    To put it bluntly, I am absolutely disgusted. And indeed I would be willing to bet that you were molested.

    I'm inclined to ask you the following questions, although I am simply not sure if I really want answers.

    "so my older, age 40+, neighbor would watch me."
    Well...did he?

    "I would be masturbating compulsively to the sexual abuse of myself with men."
    What does this mean?

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    • hydroflask

      1) No, I don't believe he watched me. I really can't be sure, it was so long ago.

      2) I would masturbate to older men, that fit the description stated above, sexually abusing me. Never violently, but being too scared to say anything. A good example would be me being touched inappropriately while i'm asleep but being too afraid to wake up and stop him.

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  • matches

    I am a male and I was molested when I was 12 by my 16 year old female babysitter. She was lighting candles and she said she noticed that every match she struck made me even harder she asked if I wanted her to light more matches I told her yes She began striking matches hard so the popped hard under my little wiener and balls and she jerked it in her hand it all felt so good it tickles so much I had my first orgasm that day Now I have a Matches fetish and I masturbait with them and sometimes my wife will strike the matches for me but I have always wanted to have several girls doing this to me at once

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    • hydroflask

      Thank you for sharing your story. I suppose out situations are similar in the sense that a fetish can arise from abuse. Have you ever thought of seeing a therapist?

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      • I agree that terrible trolls should consider therapy.

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  • chuy

    Normal to some extand but you've crossed the line a few times. If I have to guess yes you were molested and you repressed the memories.

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  • matches

    Yes but its like for me it was not a bad experience and I really enjoy both normal sex and kinky

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