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Is it ok for a woman to go online and chat with guys and then agree to meet up with them and have sex the first time they meet?
id very much like to find women up for nothing serious even if just long distance fwb or a hookup but im shy and no ones made an offer even though i have a high sex drive
If I was a man I'd be concerned it was a con and the woman is posing in order for her boyfriend to bonk you on the head and rip you off.
If you want to get laid just go to a bar, grocery store or coffee shop, it's really pretty easy to pick someone up.
Nikclare, Try telling an Aspie like me that practiced for 10 years and still makes dumb social mistakes with women.
Try it, I dare you. Not trying to be mean but I’m sick of ignorance towards the autistic community.
Not too normal considering how many guys are looking for casual compared to women, but still plenty of women do it.
As a guy, I've had first date sex several times but still to this day, never a one night stand. I don't consider it a one night stand if you date them again but some people do so idk its semantics.
Now, is it okay? Yes of course. It's not wrong. It's not illegal. Your not hurting anybody. It is undeniably risky though. If proper precautions are taken though you can assure your safety is optimized. So make sure your careful who you go out with, you meet in public first, you carry some form of self defense like pepper spray or a knife, and of course contraceptives!!!
Yea if you're looking for casual sex but if you're getting money out of it then you're an escort and that's not exactly normal sorry to assume you do you, Boo
Well I've done that a number of times and had some great sex so from my point of view yes it is normal.
Imho it's normal, one night stands are fun. Quite often they are bored married ladies just out for a bit of no strings fun.
To me, you’re asking two different questions. I have fucked strangers many times. I would never agree to meet someone I’m chatting with online and risk fucking him. Sounds like a good way to get your throat cut.
I think if your selective with who you go out with and meet in public first its pretty damn safe.
Both? Purple is red and blue. Red is close to pink, which is commonly associated with females and blue is commonly associated with male. So both?
Actually, I would guess masculine energy based on your comments.
My point was from a female perspective. Nothing in the original post suggested a thought out plan in meeting, just a hookup. Which is not safe for either gender regarding STIs and women are more prone to attack and date rape. Will she be "allowed" to change her mind? Sure, you can take measures to be safe, but the risk is still there.
Sonething is only wrong if society deems it so. Now days most of society in a 1st world country sees nothing wrong with the above subject. So for it to be wrong for someone in a period of acceptance it would have to be veikived it's wrong but said person. So ie irs only wrong if they think it's wrong.
People are too easily offended. I honestly have no idea how normal people hook up these days. But there should be no stigma against a woman wanting casual sex.