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I'm 18, and a freshmen that is 15 told me this story about how she and this man that is 36 are pretty much dating. He is married and has two kids. This girl is a virgin they only make out. She says they really love eachother but is this not weird?
That's not just weird, it's totally wrong. Not only is it illegal, but he's already married with a family. Does his wife know about this?
i dont think this is normal, or right for that matter. I dont think an age gap that big is going to end well and worst of all he is married with kids! she's probably the same age as one of his kids! the cheating is wrong and i dont mean to judge but i dont think you can really call that love.
this is not normal and incredibly immoral but i fail to see how a man who is attracted to a teenager is a pedophile. teenage girls are already developed and pretty much have the figures they're going to have as women. pedophiles like children.
this is completely wrong the guy is a total Pedophile and the fact that he has a wife and children makes it rather worse. You need to encourage her to stop!!!!!!!!
a 36 yr old that finds a 15yr old sexually attractive is a PEDOPHILE. no, it's not ok. if they have sex, he WILL go to jail for rape. he could actually be charged with molestation now.
Speaking from experiance, he probably does care about her, but he's going to go back to his wife when she finds out or when his conscience catches up to him.whichever comes first. But it's a 99.9% chance she is going to get really hurt by this guy. Really try to get her to break it off before she gets her heart broken.
If you had said you were dating him, at 18 I would say it's normal, I fully believe that age is not important, and 15 year olds are generally close to or fully developed so I think calling someone who is attracted to a fully developed teenager a paedophile, as opposed to a paedophile that is attracted to FOUR YEAR OLDS is NOT that same thing, but STILL 15 years old is just too young TO BE DATING, to take advantage of that age isn't right. So no, it's not normal.
This is a fine example of being blind and delusional. The girl doesn't see it, no matter how much you tell her. People, wake up and get to realize what's really happening in our lives.
15 is within the realms of normal sexual attraction. You don't suddenly find people attractive once they hit their 18th birthday (or 16th here in the UK) because suddenly they're legally deemed capable of consent. So this isn't enough evidence to declare the guy is a paedophile. Brainwashed idiots.
There also isn't enough detail in the story to declare who is wrong, who is right, who is a victim and who is guilty. All I can say is it's very unusual for a couple to have such an enormous age difference - therefore it's not normal.
Wrong on so many levels. When I was a freshman my bff who was also 14 was doing exactly this, except she was having sex with the guy. I'm not sure how old he was, but he was balding. It was disgusting.
He is not a pedophile. There are many places in the world including France, Spain, etc where the legal age is around 15.
No, worst of all she is 15 (not that he's married)! If your friend is telling the truth, she may enjoy his attention, but he is breaking the laws set to protect her. His wife would be smart to dump his ass and take all he has, because he's probably messing with "her" kids that she needs to protect from him! It really enrages me these wife's who stay with men like this and blame this behavior on the young girls! Wake up people!