Is it normal for a taken guy to flirt with me..?

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I'll try to make this short.

Firstly, I'm a 20 year old FtM transsexual. I don't go around boasting it, but, the people who should know, do. I'm attracted to all sexes/genders, so that isn't of concern for me.

I recently went to go to Meijer looking for Brasso to fix a CD, I couldn't find it, and went to ask an employee for help, we struck up a conversation about gaming, computers, and all sorts. I ended up asking him for his email, as I had just moved here and don't know anyone except for my gay roommate.

I didn't email the guy at first, but I checked his facebook, he was "in a relationship." (Now, on my facebook, it says I'm in a relationship with my roommate, but it's a cover story so he appears straight to who needs to appear straight to.) I added him on facebook, but didn't email him. About a week or so after I added him I saw him at Meijer again (and goddammit he switched sections so now I run into him all the time!). We ended up talking about college, and he was telling me that he needed to pick up another class and chose weightlifting, and then we continued talking and I brought up facebook and he said something (not quoting him) along the lines that he wasn't expecting me to do that, and sounded rather disappointed about it.

Now, whenever I go shopping, he runs into me. And always says, "Oh hey, you come here often." I go to meijer about twice a week. And have been since I moved here. My roommate is trying to hook us up, by always finding a reason to send me to wherever he is located in the store.) I can't confirm, without directly asking, if he's dating someone. I don't want to ruin any chances with him, as he seems like a nice guy. To me, he doesn't act like he's dating someone.

Also, as insight from my roommate, he thinks that if he is in a relationship, he isn't happy with it.

help/advice?

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  • peterrabbyt3
    7 years ago

    Always,always suck cock first and ask question later!

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  • bazwell
    14 years ago

    Does he think you are male or female?

    Eitherway, the rules of engagement remain the same. If he says that he is in a relationship on facebook, that most likely means that he is. I recommend that you do not expect any more than a friendship from him, and in a situation where he said something openly flirtatious, you ask him how his girlfriend would feel if she heard him. This will give you an opportunity to know his actual status single, in relationship or the one about being complicated. Eitherway, and most importantly, it makes your inquiry valid and appropriate in the context, and also lets him know that you are not interested in violating the boundaries of his relationship with his girlfriend.

    As a side note and in all fairness, if he is being deceptive about his relationship status (for whatever reason), so are you. It is better to leave the section blank than to lie about it (for whatever reason).

    Best of luck!

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  • funlovingbitch
    7 years ago

    Flaunting his harmless he probably likes you company or chatting with you

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