Is it normal for a straight man to like sucking dildos/anal

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So my husband and I are always up to try new things in the bedroom except other people:)Our sex life is amaziiiiiing. My husband totally enjoys anal, which I turned him onto by playing more and more during oral. I can understand a straight guy liking anal, it's there g-spot. It totally turns me on to use my finger during oral, dildos, strap on's just the feeling of being in control. Over the past 1.5-2 years it is been more and more in the bedroom and of course I say "ummm hello don't forget about me:)" Then there's the fantasy TALK about another man satisfying us both and us satisfying him together. Again that totally turns me on too. Then I worry cause I don't know any straight men who would be aroused by this type of "bedroom talk". Rest assured when we are done my husband is quick to say "I would never". So is it normal for my husband to be aroused when fantasizing about another penis being in the bed with us doing each of us, us doing the other? Is it normal my husband likes sucking the strap on, watching me stroke it. I love every minute of it, I just worry it's NOT normal.

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  • NoraBaker
    12 years ago

    Start worrying when the strap on cums in your hubby's mouth. Till then, you're all good! ;)

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    • Acton98
      6 years ago

      LMFAO,LMFAO oh my gawd.
      If you didn't just win the internet with that comment,then I'm a unicorn that makes balloon animals with its asshole.

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    • anti-hero
      12 years ago

      Trust Nora she is the strap on expert.

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    • Ski5499
      12 years ago

      So it's totally normal for him be aroused by "bedroom talk" that includes him watching me take another man him taking it. As much as it turns us both on, I become somewhat "closed minded". I enjoy every aspect of our sex life but then I'm like umm yeah he's gay (to myself that is). Not knowing any straight guys including my 6 brothers who would openly admit that they do things of this nature or it is normalm it's becoming a super personal issue for me.

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  • Ono
    12 years ago

    If you're both happy then there's nothing to worry about.

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  • [email protected]
    7 years ago

    Normal is a setting on a wash machine and has no place in the bedroom.

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  • hercules
    7 years ago

    sure it's normal. i am not sure why women get so worried about this. women are actually more likely to experiment with other women or fantasize about them. it's the same thing for men. bottom line is that women's doubts about this are more rooted in being abandoned (either for another man or woman). it's nothing more than a fantasy for many. if a man feels safe enough to explore a fantasy like that, he is opening up to you. have fun with it. many fantasies never become reality because ... they are better as fantasies. leave them that way.

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  • magic7
    10 years ago

    My x-wife decided to be my mistress after 14 years apart. She turned lesbian promising me no sex but plenty of discipline. Knowing I was into strap on penetration she denied me that but the thought of forcing me to suck a cock strapped to her waist was exciting. One night after a discipline session she made me kneel before her then to my surprise she forced the 9 in. dildo all. The way down my throat. I gagged but she kept screwing my mouth as I held my breath as the head slid down my throat. She later told me it was a turn on to see the entire shaft disappear in my mouth. When we were married I was always begging for a suck so it was a turn on for a butch lesbian to make me suck instead. From that first time she gave me sucking lesson so I didn't choke and learned to easily swallow deep throat style. She said I missed my calling and could have pumped me out making money. We split up again after having fun and she ran off with a gf again.

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