Is it normal for a straight girl to wish she was a gay guy?
I am a straight girl but sometimes I fantasize being a gay guy and having sex with a guy? Is it normal?
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I am a straight girl but sometimes I fantasize being a gay guy and having sex with a guy? Is it normal?
Excuse my potentially obtuse interpretation of your comments, but it sounds like your interest lies with the issue of anal sex?
Like acid6urn suggests above, pegging might be your interest (where you are wearing a strap-on dildo and penetrating a male orally and/or anally. Or it is possible that you are talking about being on the receiving end of anal sex? Where a gay male is more likely to want to practice the act with you, as opposed to a straight male?
Either way, your sexual orientation should not be what determines what kinds of sexual activities you practice in the bedroom (or wherever you prefer to practice sexual acts).
You penetrating a male would not require that you were a gay male or that he is gay either, and you desiring to be penetrated anally would not require that you were a gay male or that he is gay either. The sexual acts can be performed by people of any orientation and enjoyed if done under the right circumstances.
I suggest that you do some more research on whatever sexual act it is that you have interest in (and explore to some extent what function this sexual act may be fulfilling for you psychologically, emotionally and even sexually), and then bring up your fantasy with sexual partner. If he is willing, talk about boundaries with him (how far you're willing to go, how far he's willing to go etc.) then start fulfilling your wildest dreams!
best of luck to you!
It's perfectly normal. You are role playing with your sexuality. Don't be freaked out by it.
Haha I totally get where you're coming from. Try to find a guy that's open to pegging or try to convince your boyfriend.
Ya I'm a guy and I've had a few relations with female to male transexuals.
I often fantasize about being a lesbian woman. A sex change doesnt interest me at all tho. I would make an ugly girl. Maybe if they could make me a proper hot girl instead of man with fake boobs and his dick cut off then id consider it. Besides i like banging girls too. I need to be a shapeshifter.
I have same thing... I want to get as sex change so I can be one. I'm bi though, not straight, but I hate the idea of me as a girl dating a guy, or me as a guy dating a girl.
I think it could also be a domination thing. You know, as in you want to be behind a guy in a dominant role. You can test this theory by possibly considering sitting on a guys face possibly while he is restrained. (Just make sure your very clean first) If you find that to your liking then its most likely a domination issue. If that’s the case there is nothing wrong with that. There are plenty of men that like that and it could just be in sex but they might be dominate themselves in other ways. I'm also sure there are plenty of men that wouldn’t mind you wearning a strap on either. Just tell them to take it like a man.