Is it normal for a step-father to blindfold his step-daughter ?
I get severe willies when I heard about something that my girlfriend and her step-father did two weeks ago.
He was visiting; and she was in his hotel room the day he was leaving and he blindfolds her, gets a 'safe word' from her, and then tells her to 'not move a f-in muscle.' Then rummages around the room for a while, and eventually he puts a paddle in her hand and asks her what it is. And then takes the blindfold off.
There was no paddling, no sex, no anything else.
Yet, I still view it as S&M play, and I consider S&M to be sexual in nature.
It was explained to me as a practice in 'witness consciousness' and self-discovery.
I think this is really sick; especially considering the step-father is a known sex-addict, made a pass at her older sister, and he cheated on her mother a few months into their marriage.
Is this normal behavior ? On either part ?