Is it normal for a serious relationship to be this way?
Is it normal for a relationship to be like this??
First some background info..
I met my fiancé in the last year if school.. We both liked each other a lot but being shy ppl we never done nothing about it. School finished and we lost touch of each other. We were always thinking of each other and wondered what the other one was doing.
15 years later I found her on Facebook and I made contact with her which put a massive smile on her face.. She was in a different state but we decided to catch up with each-other. We still had feelings for each other at this stage. We kept in contact and one thing lead to another and we feel deeply for each other. She has 3 kids to 2 fathers (both are dead beats) It's now been nearly 2 years, 3 months of that engaged.
About 6 months ago things started to change. We argue a lot, and mostly over stupid stuff. She gets very angry very quickly, shows very little affection towards me. I still show her alot of affection. She doesn't want to do anything with me, her statement "I would rather go out with my friends then go out with you" and "I would rather have my 4y/o son in the bed then have you in the room" really broke me. I have provided a nice house, car, living expenses, unconditional love and commitment to her and the kids. I love them kids like my own and am a good stepdad to them. I've seen a difference with the kids since I have been in their lives. I work away for 3 weeks at a time and only back for 1 week before I have to go back. She never seems happy to see me when I return. She says that she loves me a lot but hardly ever touches,kisses or cuddles me. I know for a fact that there is no one else. I just don't understand how it could have gone from awesome in every way to what we have now.. Is there something wrong with me.. Am i being overly sensitive?.. Is this normal for a woman to do this in a serious relationship?