Is it normal for a relationship to fall apart b'coz one person is dumb

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i left my ex b coz he has ugly temper, but also very dumb, this is a good guy but half of the time on a day we spend talking all i hear is just stupid annoying things... he'll repeat the same thing over & over againg, every day he get home from work he ll tell me the same thing about his boss or start talking about something that dont make any sens.. he doesnt understand body language when someone is not interested in what he's saying, he'll just be going on & on & on... because of that he has no friends not even one. am the only one he talks to.. i use to love this guy so much, now i just hate im, but he wants me back, even tho we are no longer together we still talk..but is it normal to hate some one u once love for a thing like this? i really do wish i could love him again, he is a very good guy but every time we talk on the phone, the things he says upset so much, so guy plz let me know what u think....

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago | pl

    Well, judging from your writing skills I wouldn't necessarily call you a genius either. Ouch? Too much?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    There's a lot of people like that out there, they are annoying but don't know it. If he doesn't have other good qualities, I say dump him, it's for the best.

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  • LizFromCHi
    11 years ago

    I truly feel intellectualy compatibililty is Paramount to a successful relationship. Good communication,as most of us know, is a basic essential to good relationship flow. It definitely decreases misunderstandings, in turn, avoiding arguments. THis makes for good vibes! I am currently with someone who I care about very much, and I am at the point where I feel in all fairness, I may have to let him go. He is sweet and has a great heart, but a short temper. I believe the temper comes with some of the obvious insecurities he has in social settings. I happen to surround myself with intellectuals, cool people, down to earth, but intellectual most definitely. I noticed he becomes a bit quiet, and if it's not a story of a personal memory, one that entails no one knowing any wrong communication, he is quiet. I become condescending sometimes, I don't mean to, but it's just annoying and frustrating when simple things seem to be not sinking in or understood. I feel to be fair to myself and him, it's time to let go. Opposites may attract for many levels, but intellectual stimulation just keeps things spicy, without it, you may as well be Pinky and the Brain. Someone will always feel superior/inferior, and that's just NOT a good look.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    But relationships do fall apart. Even though he still has feelings for you, you can't beat yourself up about it and feel guilty. We feel what we feel.

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