Is it normal for a person to have no friends?

I'm a 23 year old guy and for years I'm having literally no friends in my life. I'm a loner and I don't really feel bad about it but sometimes it bothers me that I have no social life or no 'life' whatsoever.

It's not like I can't talk to people, in university I get along with everyone but it's always little conversations about exams and so on. In a way I'm pretty sociable but I keep people at a distance usually.

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Based on 64 votes (46 yes)
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  • college

    I'm in my first year of college and I too have absolutely no friends, just many acquaintances. To be honest, I like it this way. I have no pressure to socialize and I can do whatever I want whenever I want without having to alter my schedule for others. Perhaps it's a bit selfish, but if we're happy, what's the problem?

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  • Enlightened

    Please don't take it personally...bad/prohibited/forbidden/tabooed/stigmatizing experience in the childhood(when the 'ego' develops), which you don't even know(don't consciously remember), can affect your unconscious mind and influence your behaviour(like unconscious dreams which are simulated and virtual, work as a stage rehearsal of your hidden anxieties, to toughen you up)...like that of a toddler who has been raped at 3 years of age, and has partially lost his/her ability to trust/believe in anybody( it's an outcome of a natural defence-mechanism programmed)......I personally am quite a loner, but I like to write to associate freely...and that's why, in this age of technology, social networking sites have helped me a lot to make friends without a physical anxiety of getting touched on the would be friend's part(if the friend is a girl)....it's an orthodox technique too to make friendships through letters, which even last long

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  • Anime7

    Try asking people to hang out. Do a group activity and form a group of friends, one at a time.

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  • bearbear1124

    I feel you. Same here but what sucks is I'm a woman with no friends. My contacts are my mom, grandma, sister, and bf.

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    • peterr

      I will be your friend.

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  • ForeverAChild

    I have a couple of friends on here: Meunstar and Shuggy-Chan. In real life though, I don't have any friends.

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  • searchingnow

    I'm like that and I'm fucking glad.

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