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IM 21 and I want to know if its normal for your girlfriend to not want to have sex until after mariage? Because its been killing me and i dont know if its a normal thing for ladies. please only answer if you have experienced the same thing. thnx
can't say if it's normal or not but you sould me a bit happy to think you could be her first.
Wanting to wait doesn't have to be a religious issue.
Some women want to wait simply because they want to save it for the one man they know they'll spend the rest of their lives with.
Others may also want to be sure he won't just tap it and go.
There's nothing wrong in what she feels even if it's not based on faith
Religion isn't the only reason for her to want to wait. My advice to you, start masturbating regularly!
I don't think religion is necessarily the deciding factor in a decision like this. It might influence the decision, but by no means is it the most important factor. I'm religious, I'm perfectly open to sex before marriage. I might not end up going through with it depending on the thoughts of my partner, but I'm not against it per se.
Just because she's not religious doesn't mean she wouldn't like to save herself until she's ready. It's normal not only for ladies, but for men too.
I don't think its all that normal these days.
I also wonder if she is a virgin atm?
Many couples tend to live together before marriage these days (usually starts with a stay over, then two nights, then 3 etc)
Is she at least open to that? If not, then do note, you both may hate how you are at 'home' whilst living together.
I mean what if she absolutely hates cuddling up at night and you like it? There are a million things that you may not be compatible with, even just straight boring sex!!