Is it normal for a mother to tell her daughter/son she hated them?

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I remember several times where my mother told me she hated me. Mostly because i dont always do as she says (not on purpose though). But recently she told me she hated me and started shouting like a crazy person and told me things to hurt me, all because of the stupidest reason you could ever think of - because i cut a piece of a cake she wanted to give to grandma.. Yeah, wtf, i know. I constantly kept telling her that i didnt know it was for grandma but she kept on shouting.. I later told her that she exaggerated in her reaction a lot .. But all she could say to me was "shut up and get out of my face" .. So is it normal for a mother to do that to her daughter because of such a silly reason?

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  • Hati
    8 years ago

    Not normal. If you're able to, maybe move out and rent a cheap apartment/room with a friend? If you're not of legal age though is there another parent or family member you can move with, away from your mother?

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    • ______________
      8 years ago

      Aren't you blowing shit out of proportion?

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Maybe she's mentally ill or going through the change? She could be menopausal.

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  • rosie302
    8 years ago

    I agree with thegypsysailor's post. Parents are still people and can react to things just like you. Are you saying that you have never yelled at someone because you have been pushed to far or are having a bad day? Also she was totally right for yelling at you when you told her it was an over reaction. She is older then you and as a rule you should respect your elders and most problems today about teenagers acting, well like teenagers, is because that rule is forgotten. If your mum says the sky is pink then the sky is pink and you don't tell her directly. You speak to someone the same age as her or older or are friends with her to address the issue. She may have been out of line for yelling at you with the thing about the cake and saying she hated you but she is your mum and probably doesn't mean it. Speak to someone else who can speak to her, mainly because if you speak to her again you may get yelled at.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Give it a break, will you? Parents are people too and children can push a parent too far sometimes.
    EVERYBODY says things they don't mean and often regret when they are angry, even you I'd bet.

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