Is it normal for a mid-30s man to only date women 5+ years younger?

I am a man in my mid-30s. I am a white collar professional and have earned a six-figure income every year since my mid-20s, stay in shape, and look look relatively young for my age. When I was in my mid-20s, dating was hard because so many women my age either wanted to play the field or simply didn't want to be with a guy who was busy establishing his career. However, now that I am older, I get a lot of attention from women my age and also seem to get more obvious attention from women in their mid-late 20s than I did when I was that age.

I prefer the younger women because they are better looking and are often much nicer than the women in their mid-30s. I am also looking for my future wife and view the younger women as better prospects who are likely more fertile. The women my age are often self-centered bitter crones who look old and used up and are angry that they aren't married.

Is it normal to only date women 5+ years younger and avoid the jaded mid-30s women who are well on their way to spending the rest of their lives along with their cats?

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82% Normal
Based on 119 votes (98 yes)
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Comments ( 19 )
  • howaminotmyself

    Go back and read what you wrote. Do you think any self respecting 30 something would think of you as a prospect? But if you want a woman who is looking for a man only intersted in her looks and can only offer a bank account...you can find them at any age. But be wary of that mid life crisis. When the looks fade, will you still want that relationship? And if the money isn't enough, what else can you contribute?

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    • Rick_Bawls

      Every man would go for woman 5-10 years younger if (a) she is pretty enough; (b) she is classy and intelligent; and (c) he thinks she will be loyal to him.

      It isn't a matter of women in their mid-30s not wanting me or any other guy that age. In fact, women get pissed off when guys my age go for younger woman. However, they overlooked us when we were younger, so screw them and their bitter attitude now.

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    • NeuroNeptunian

      This.

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  • thinkingaboutit

    what are you crying about? 30-35 YOs are still fucking hot (if they ever were).

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    Hahah, crones, I like that word.

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  • kelili

    i don't know why but i don't believe a shit. i think you're a broke uni student or maybe younger trying hard to create a poll that receives more feedback than your previous ones

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  • Ldizzy1234

    Eh..., I kinda see what you're saying. And there's nothing wrong with liking younger women. But part of me agrees with howaminotmyself. I mean, especially if you're looking to settle down. Women in their 20's are probably a little more 'fresh', than a woman in her mid 30's might be. But you should also keep in mind that a lot of women(NOT ALL), in their 20's are still kinda young, so they(NOT ALL) might be in that phase where they just wanna have fun.

    So... the 20 somethings, they might dress a little more sexier, and do themselves up a little more, because they actually have the time to do it. A lot of women that are in their 30's(NOT ALL) might have children from their prior marriage, and have a little bit more responsibilities. That could probably wear a person out after a little while. So you gotta give the women in their 30's a little credit too. Plus, all women are bound to change. Just as men are too. Those 20 something year olds that you're looking at now, might be smoking hot, but think about it. They could be just like those 30 something year olds that you call; 'bitter crones who look old and used', when they hit their 30's as well. A lot of stress build up could probably do it to ya. And who's to say you'll be some kind of spring chicken a few years down the line yourself? Don't be so judgemental. You need to see more than looks, especially if you're looking for a future wife.

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  • ArtLoverC

    Five years isn't that big of a difference. And traditionally men are usually older than the women in marriage. Even 10 years difference hasn't been uncommon.

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  • wow0myblog

    Duh, young women are hot. Lol ego boost.

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  • KatieLiz

    Holy Christ, you're like a walking stereotype.

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  • MeHTa

    Nothing wrong with dating people younger then u. Weird question... The risk of dating girls who are younger then you would be that they will be after your money and seeing what you have described is exactly that. Women who are in their 30s are not angry at the world for not being married, many don't even want to... People are in different stages of life in any given age... I am in my mid 20s and i have friends who are both in their early 20s, mid 20s and early and late 30s. Everyone is different... I would say i am more mature for my age. My gf who is in her early 30s never been married and is partying like a rockstar... Some gfs of mine are already married in their early 20...

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  • KeddersPrincess

    I don't see anything wrong with it.

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  • A man who only likes younger women, omg what a shock!

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  • PapzBSlim

    Lol self-centered bitter crones is so hilarious to me. As long as they are not below 18 years of age, go for it.

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  • lillypoppy

    Just admit you want to catch up on all the youthful sex you missed out on when YOU were 20. There is nothing wrong with 30 yr old women they are beautiful.

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  • As long as she is legal do as you please.

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  • ccjigsaw

    Sure that's normal. If you're looking for a quick fuck. If you're looking for a wife and your standards are "Fertile and much prettier" then you're marriage is likely to fail, and those healthy kids are going to be mentally fucked. I don't care what age you're looking for in a woman, but you should change those unhealthy standards. How about, is mature and gives off an heir that she would be a good mom? Or even wants to be a mom.. Alot of women don't even want children. You sound fucked. Please don't reproduce.

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    • Rick_Bawls

      Wow, you are really angry! You are well on your way to being an old crone yourself!

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      • ccjigsaw

        Yeah i'm fucking angry. I'll be a crone who throws fucking scones at people. That's worse than a regular crone. I'm only 20 too. See what I mean about standards? I'm 20 years old, pretty and fertile. But I'm already a crone. If the standard was a woman who's not a bitch, then we'd be talkin! Age has nothing to do with it..

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