Is it normal for a married man to tell another women he misses her?

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I saw a few conversations via text messages on my husbands phone between him and a girl he used to work with. They both said they missed each other a few different times. he also told her to call him in one of the text and I wasn't aware they texted each other let alone talked on the phone until today when I saw this.

I was wondering if I should be concerned about this or if I'm feeling strange about it for no reason.

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  • Oli
    12 years ago

    He's married, texts her without you knowing and says he misses her. That's a red flag. Married in love men don't tell other girls they miss them unless it's family.

    You should:

    1. Confront him
    2. Confront her
    3. Get more evidence to confront him.

    I'm not a person for snooping, but you can pull up text history from your provider.

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    • Countryboy4490
      7 years ago

      Seems like u have experience doing this

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    like others said, get some paper evidence to prove adultery and take him to the cleaners! cheating bastard!!

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  • xoxo29
    12 years ago

    Doesn't look good! Stay quiet and gather as much evidence as you can and pull his text record. Also check his bank account for any suspucious transactions. Good luck!

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    As soon as you mention it to him, all the texts and her number may disappear so stay silent for a while to find out what's really going on.

    I'm married 22 years and do find it very strange :o( Sorry!

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  • madme
    12 years ago

    Don't say anything to him and continue to check his phone... You may find out more before you make a big deal of nothing or you may have a case to confront about.

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  • kittenlittle
    12 years ago

    thats weird because he never told you, its like hes hiding something

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Oooooooooooh.

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  • drakesbabe
    12 years ago

    It's shady

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  • niniozo
    12 years ago

    put a stop to it before it gets too far. but the fact that the guy has even thought of cheating is not a good sign. confront him, get your stories straight, then decide whether you can still trust him or not.

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    • Countryboy4490
      7 years ago

      Just because he's messaging someone he used to work with that happens to be female doesnt mean hes thought about cheating. What if the person was a male? Would u think the same thing? No. U are just thinking like that because its a woman. It could just be that he was really close to her at work. You cant always think negative unless you have proof of him doing something wrong.

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  • colourmoon
    12 years ago

    were you checking his phone?

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  • Treez
    12 years ago

    U need to keep better tabs of ur man

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