Is it normal for a mans feelings to change

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My boyfriend of 6 years seems to be distant from me anymore and the only time he says I love you is if I say it to him I feel like he is falling out of love with me but when I ask him he says its all in your head. I looked on line of the signs if someone is falling out of love and they were all there. I asked him all about it and he said if I keep looking at that crap on line its gonna mess my head up. When we are in the same room it feels like he is a 100 miles away I feel so lonely he thinks just cause we are watching tv that we are spending time together I rub and touch him all the time and he doesn't do it in return I tell him to touch me and he will do it for a short period of time and when he does it feels like I am forcing him too so the effection is not there. Is it normal to feel this way after 6 years

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Why would you want to stay with a person that treats you this way? Also who cares about the history you two have had If it is obviously not good now. Seems like this guy is cheating on you to me. It's pretty fishy for him to just lose interest all of the sudden and become distant. Also seems like a premise to a Steve Wilkos episode.

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago

    Waaahhhh! Fack that sounds like me to... urrgg. By reading this it kind of feels like the relationship is ending and we're just kinda holding on to the scraps..I'm thinking you should put it into his head that you can leave anytime you want. If he doesn't care and makes no move to improve... yeah, it's probably over

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    You are going to lose this guy if you don't do something, now!
    Talking to a guy is like rolling up hill, it's pretty useless.
    Unfortunately, it's all on you at this point. Remember what it used to be like? Return to that frame of mind; do things you know he likes; wear sexy clothes around the house, cook his favorite foods, do anything you can to get him off the couch and away from the TV.
    But if he's already having an affair, then be very cautious not to expend too much effort on a lost cause.
    Good luck.

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