Is it normal for a man to wear all kinds of women's apparel

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Is it normal for a man to enjoy wearing all kinds of women's clothing.... From panties, skirts, dresses and mostly footwear. I really enjoy wearing all types of women's clothes. Especially high heels. And ballet flats. I recently bought a pair of Capri style leggings and love them. I have only recently told my wife... Yes my wife that I like wearing women's flats but haven't told her about the other types of clothes. Should I tell her or just give her time to accept the fact that I like wearing flats then slowly ease her into the rest. HELP!!!! I've been wearing these types of clothes for a while now. In fact about 15 years and have expanded through the time as the clothing have changed. Now I love my wife and don't have any desire to harm that but I want her to know about these inner desires. What should I do. Now I also wanna go into public dressed in women's clothes but am not looking forward to the ridiculing and laughs I'd get. Which I know I'd get. I have gone into stores with the flats on and haven't met with any issues but what about if I went into that same store dressed in a skirt and heels what do you think would happen. I was out of town a few weeks ago and brought some of my women's clothing with and dressed and walked around my hotel and never saw anyone well at least not in person, I know the hotel I was at has cameras everywhere so I'm guessing I was seen by security, but no one else. What do I do HELP !!!

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Normal and common. How your wife will respond will obviously depend on how open minded she is about harmless fetishes.

    There are groups around for blokes like you: why don't you get some support there for talking to your wife about it, you're far from the only one in this situation

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    • Bashful835
      8 years ago

      Can u tell me of somewhere I can look to talk about this. I haven't been able to find anywhere that I can actually talk 1 on 1 with someone. Well at least anonymously.

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        I don't know where you live but if you google crossdressing support groups and transvestite support groups you'll be sure to find something.

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        • Bashful835
          8 years ago

          Are you a man? And do u like to crossdress.

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          • Ellenna
            8 years ago

            No I'm a woman and I dress however I like, but I do know a bit about crossdressing men because of my work on an adult sex line

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            • Bashful835
              8 years ago

              Would you be ok with a crossdressing mate. Would you help that person shop. That would be cool to have someone like that in my life.

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  • mysistersshadow
    8 years ago

    If your a crossdresser yes its normal.

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    • Bashful835
      8 years ago

      I guess I'm a crossdresser cause I've been doing for a long time, but just as if that past couple of years have I wanted to go into public dressed in women's clothes.

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      • Bashful835
        8 years ago

        Actually I'm really close to wearing a pair of those Capri leggings and a pair of flats and going into a convent store in the morning, of corse when there's not a lot of people in there.

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        • mysistersshadow
          8 years ago

          Theres alot of support for crossdressers on the internets just look for crossdressing forums. Its a common enough.... thing. I don't want to use the word fetish cos I don't know if you fit that paradigm.

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          • Bashful835
            7 years ago

            Hi again. Thanks for the chating, I actually did it 2 mornings in a row I dressed in my new Capri leggings and matching flats and went into a convient store on my way to work, it was vey arrousing, unfortunately the only person in the store was the attendant and he smiled at me, I don't wanna judge but he seemed kinda ok with it... Or not, maybe he laughed his ass off after I left but he didn't laugh while I was in the store. What's next for me... Need some more advise

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            • CDmale4fem
              7 years ago

              It has taken me awhile, but I go out in public wearing things under my guy clothes. I will wear a bra with Breast forms and after doing that awhile and wearing a skirt or simple dress that won't bunch up, I will kinda peel off a layer here and there and get more bold or brave as I am in town. I would also say you can go to www.crossdressers.com and find many people willing to help and tell you how they came out. There are also many wives and his willing to talk to and support your wife if she needs someone to talk to that has been right where she is if you decide to tell her.

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            • mysistersshadow
              7 years ago

              No idea but good luck.

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