Is it normal for a man to want a hard spanking from an older woman?

When I was about 13, my parents had to travel several states away because of a family illness. They stocked up TV dinners and such for me and just had the neighbor lady check on me from time to time. One day I found some of my Mom's cigarettes and decided to smoke one on the side of the house. The woman who was supposed to keep an eye on me caught me and told me to stay where I was until she came over to the yard. When she got there she asked me if I wanted a lickin now or later from my Mom when they returned. I knew I wouldn't really get punished for what I did by my parents, but I was curious about what a lickin would be. I was not that familiar with the term, other than it would be like a spanking. I kind of had a teenage crush on this woman because she was the youngest in the neighborhood and good looking. I opted to take the lickin from her. She told me to get into my room unless I wanted to take my pants down right there and hanc over my belt. I lead her into our house and my room nervously. Before I knew it she was unbuttoning my Levi's blue jeans and yanking them down. She then pulled me over one knee on the bed and locked me down with her other leg. She lowere my short in back, rolled up the belt at the buckle, and gave me a good whipping. It was very painful, and I was sent to bed without my dinner.
Years later I met her at a neighbors wedding. I was 24 and she was 46. We were very attracked to each other and a little bit drunk. We went to my place and immediately embrassed in passionate kissing and groaping. We finally took a breath. She said that I needed to pay her back for that hard whipping she gave me years back. I said that I wanted her to give me the same whipping again and she said she could use a good tanning also. We made love with red hot buns all night and into the morning.
Is it normal that I still want older women to spank and to spank me?