Is it normal for a man to wait till 30 for sex

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my husband of eight years was my supervisor at the time. for months i could feel something between us but he never made a move. this i was not accustomed to. at a employee christmas party, i got highly intoxicated. He offered to drive me home. When i say gentelmen, he took me to a place i did not know existed. He got home(a whole nother story on how he found out wher i lived and how to get there) brought me into my house, put me in my bed put the covers over me and said see you tommorrow at work. ugh? I don't think so! I attacted him. we have been togethter ever sense. He is a college grad.He was 30 at the time and still lived with his momma. (i did not know any of this till the next morning) He cute and all the women talked about him what was the deal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    He's a real and good man. What are you complaining about?

    That, or he's secretly bi and has sex with multiple men off the Internet. I've seen this before. Highly deceitful.

    But that's just a possibility. He could be an actual good man.

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    • bumblebee66
      12 years ago

      That is why i married him, i thought he was one of the good ones. But right after we got married i found out the hard way that he was addicted to porn. I work days and he worked nights. he was very good at trying to delete his evidence but my sns girlfriend was better at findiing it. then later in our marriage i found sex date sites on line. He said he never did anything it was all fantasy. He was also carjacked by a prostitute he tried to pick up. No one is perfect so I stay and try to believe his promises. I was also in a horrible car accident recently and disabled before you ask why don't i just leave. I would just like to know what i am dealing with. For the last few months he has seemed to change and being more of the man i orginally fell in love with

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    Normal for my generation (I am 19), no. Normal for his generation, probably no, but still a little bit more common.

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  • golden_showers
    9 years ago

    he's a decent guy. those are the types that you want a relationship. inner beauty is the guy that wont hurt you, won't lie, won't ruin your self esteem, etc.

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  • NothingxCrazy
    12 years ago

    If you're not happy with the things he does now, you shouldn't stay with him. People change in ways you don't like and sometimes you try to think they'll change back. Don't wait and find out, you can make it on your own and as long as you keep your head up, you'll find another great guy who won't go behind your back.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Omg! See ! Deceitful ! Ugh...
    I hope he left his past behind... But be careful.
    I've seen something eerily similar happen recently... and the past resurfaced.
    No matter what situation you are in, you don't need this in your life. If you're uncomfortable enough with it to post it here, you need to do something about it.

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    • bumblebee66
      12 years ago

      wise...thank you for your response. I am alone in this world that is why i write here. and knowing someone actually cares enough to respond is a pretty good feeling. I have a strong feeling he has a past that i know nothing about and yes though things are going well now i am very afraid of his past coming back and i know it will be painful. being disabled in this car accident has left me very vulnnrable and i use to be so stong. i hate living with shawdows of fear

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        No problem ! I know exactly how you feel, and I remember when I wished that someone would tell me these things. Truth is, you already know what you should do, and probably just need approval, right? I am not saying he is actually a bad man where the past will come back; you know him better than me. I dont know if you want to leave him, but don't let being "disabled" have anything to do with it. You are strong and can be strong in the mind and heart, and that is all that matters. He is not the only one that will take care of you and love you just because you're disabled. At the end of the day, all you really need is yourself (at least that's my philosophy).
        Do what you feel is right, and don't let a disability get in the way. Sometimes, we find excuses so we don't have to do things we don't really know what to do about it so that we have an answer. But clearly, it's still bothering you and that answer is not satisfying enough ;)

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  • theytookthisone
    12 years ago

    The deal is, he was banging dudes.

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