Is it normal for a man to not want sex anymore

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O'k Im a little confused .. boyfriend of about 9 months never was big on paying for my dinner when we went out on a date, which doesn't impress me much but now he no longer wants to have sex as often like once a month?? what is with that ?? he wants to come stay over all the time eat dinner sleep .. but that's it. We get on really well but we both have put on weight but I can't help that this is the problem or could it be something else?

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx
    13 years ago

    If he doesn't pay for your dinner he is an asshole you need to dump this guy!!

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  • WolfDog
    13 years ago

    He's cheating on you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    maybe he is just getting bored of the same stuff all the while. try mixing it up a little, go back to having date nights, arrange stuff outside your houses so he hasnt got the chance to eat and sleep. i wouldnt dump him just yet, try working on it for a while. i also dont think that putting on weight is an issue, once you love someone you dont care about how much they weigh, just how they make you feel

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    • GroovyPrincess
      13 years ago

      Thanks for that I think I will take your advice a do things outside my house and be a little hard to get lol

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  • Ryan556
    11 years ago

    Men feed on sex so

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  • lilaithe
    11 years ago

    And am unmedicated.

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  • lilaithe
    11 years ago

    And yes I have extreme anxiety and clinical depression. Mental problems decrease sex drive in a lot of cases.

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  • lilaithe
    11 years ago

    My boy and I (4 years dating, both 20) had a less serious problem, we used to do it at min 1x to max 5x a day then did it 1x every other day (was my fault actually). We got a hotel room and took off after that! Hotels are nice because you might have people listening, a gap in the curtains.. Who knows, but it's an unfamiliar place and that makes it exciting. F**k against a window, be loud, don't watch any tv and get a nice dinner. Then do whatever you please hun ;)

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  • hootiemomma
    11 years ago

    He's cheating. Once a month is NOT normal. Don't fool yourself.

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  • UliNalaMansae
    12 years ago

    he sounds sad to me. like he's falling into depression or withdrawal or something.

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  • MrsBailey9
    13 years ago

    Sounds odd and NOT NORMAL to me. I'd be asking some serious questions if I were you...

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  • Sabaky
    13 years ago

    Well if this happened out of no where he is cheating on you or maybe he just doesnt wanna have sex all the time.

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  • joelsmo
    13 years ago

    Normally I would say talk to him and find out the problem, but all signs point that he is getting it some place else. He probably goes to your house right after and is hungry and sleepy.

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  • donatedbus
    13 years ago

    fuck off ladies. as a dude it means something is wrong. find out. cuz this could turn ugly.

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    • GroovyPrincess
      13 years ago

      Thanks I think there is something very wrong .. not a cheater .. couldnt possible see him being that deceitful

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  • am5310
    13 years ago

    Lose him

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