Is it normal for a man keep secrets or do things and not tell spouse?

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I been married five years now. My husband does alot of things or talks to people when im not around. I find out by him either talking to someone else and i am sitting there or someone we know will start saying something to me .They look at me weird because i hsve a strange look on my face cause i have no clue what their talking about. When i ask him he says its none of my business or walks away .Is this normal?

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46% Normal
Based on 59 votes (27 yes)
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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Truth is THE foundation of a good relationship. Without it, a relationship isn't even a good friendship.
    If I was in your situation, I would be planning my escape. I don't see why you would allow yourself to be treated in that fashion. I'm sure there is a better man out there for you.

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  • αвαdσηтнєDєѕтяσуєя
    9 years ago

    Aaaaanyway, please ignore peecock, because he's obviously a very immature, very sexist and very possibly single douchebag.

    I'm not really sure what you're implying he is keeping from you? Is he speaking about innapropriate things behind your back, or purposefully hiding things from you? Because that's not cool. You're his wife, his partner, and EVERYTHING he does and says becomes your business, automatically.

    However, if you're just paranoid about him having conversations with other people and not telling you every single time, I'd say knock it off. Yes, you're his wife and he shouldn't hide things from you, but having innocent conversations and not reporting back to you after every single one is not something wrong that he's doing.

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