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can something/an action you fear and get really angry and furious about like a phobia turn into an unwanted fetish/fantasy because the brain wouldn't be able to take all that anger,madness and fear so it turns it into something more sexually appealing so it would be easy to control
others hurting my genitals, it's a very specific scenario, and it has all the components i fear/despise in that scenario, i've also read about people hating/getting disgusted about bugs being crashed but now they have go s fetish for crashing bugs with their hands and fantasizing about it, i've also read about people hating/getting disgusted by feet in flip flops so much that they spent most of their childhood/adolescent indoors in order not to see a pair of feet spread in flip flops but now they've got a fetish for that.
Explain what your phobia is. That would help. But short answer: yes, that can happen in some instances.
It is a life long phobia, i've feared it as long as i can remember, just like how some boys/men have a castration anxiety/phobia, i as a lady have had this fear of my genitals being hurt severely, i've always feared the idea of getting kicked down there, not only the pain but the humiliation as well,just thinking about it makes me want to kick the air out of madness.
I was just reading about people who have an intense fear of vomiting. Eventually that fear is so overwhelming that it manifests itself into a fetish of wanting to watch other people vomit.
Are you saying that now you fantasize about people hurting your genitals? Or that you would like to see other women get theirs hurt?