Is it normal for a lesbian to marry a man for money?

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I was away on a business trip and was suspicious of my wife'a activities so I installed hidden cameras in the living room and in our bedroom. Sure enough I found out that she was having drinks, kissing, and getting intimate with her lady friends while I was gone. I always knew that she was bisexual but she told me that she loved me and everything and I was willing to give my heart to her and she betrays my trust like this. Now I know she is quite a bit younger than me and she struck me as a gold digger type of girl but I did choose to spoil her and wanted her to be with me because she makes me so happy. She was a waiter at a restaurant I visited sometimes and I fell in love with her and offered to give her a good life if she could be with me. She was at that time involved in a nasty breakup and I saw that she was vulnerable and it inspired something in me to be protective and nurturing of her. But currently I am crushed and don't know what to do or even if I can confront her about this because I wasn't supposed to be spying on her in the first place. I suppose it's better than her being with a man behind my back but it still hurts. It wouldn't be so bad if she could just be honest with me and tell me she was doing these things when I wasn't around, but instead when I ask her about how everything was she likes to not mention at all that she did anything like this. It has happened before that's how I know.

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  • kelliekelliekellie
    6 years ago

    what a bitch... Dude, you deserve the best. We only live once, so why wouldn't you get the best life that you can have ? Staying with someone who obviously does not give a crap about you.. there are plenty of STRAIGHT women out there who will love you for what you are and not your money. Trust me, ladies can be real greedy witches. Maybe start dating women and try to hide your wealth first, that way you can see they like you for what you are. But let's be honest, someone who cheats on you, no matter with who, obviously doesn't care about you or hurting your feelings.

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  • S12207
    6 years ago

    I think it's going to come out one way or the other. You're going to hold it in and be more and more resentful, and every time you leave you're going to be suspicious. I think you need to decide what you want to do with your marriage. If you want to work it out, well you know what is going to go on. She can say she will stop but who knows if she actually will or not and now that the cat is out of the bag about the cameras she will be sure not to do it at home amymore. Also she will probably be pissed about the cameras, but what she did is far worse in my opinion. Thats tough sorry that happened, but figure out if you want the marriage.

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