Is it normal for a lesbian to find butch lesbians repelling?
Do other lesbians find the butch lesbians repelling too?
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Do other lesbians find the butch lesbians repelling too?
I am a lesbian and I am not attracted to butch girls.
They look like men, and don't seem feminine.
Both my girlfriend and myself have long hair and nobody could guess that we are lesbians by our appearance.
I'm not a lesbian just sort of casually bi but butch lesbians don't do a thing for me.
I'm a straight guy and I'm looking forward to some answers to this question actually haha Butch Lesbians always confused me coz I always thought that being a lesbian was being attracted to girls so why do butch lesbians make themselves look more manly?
feminine lesbians can wear comfty clothes/suits and stll be feminine. Then it would be a fashion. Butch lesbians behave like men as if they are men inside (tranny)
Everybody here is so fucking stupid, who says men are the only ones that can have the monopoly of having short hair, wearing comfy clothes, suits and have swagger? It's a fashion and an interest! If they want to look masculine, they wanna look masculine, deal with it. It's all about the pussy in the end. I'm lesbian and I love butch women.
It would make sense that lipstick lesbians would not always be attracted to the butch lesbians.
well not really as a heterosexual women butch lesbians make no sense as I thought a lesbian meant they like being with other women so being with a manly looking women would repulse them because they in my theory would remind them to much of men.
I think butch lesbians are trying to trick us into thinking they are men not cool.
Hi, hope you won't mind me replying even though I'm not a lesbian. I've noticed something that at first confounded me about my gay male friends. Not one of them feels attracted to "effeminate" men. In the gay community, from what I've read and heard, this is considered highly incorrect thinking--even prejudicial and so-called self-loathing. So very many gays won't admit to feeling this way. However, many silently do.
On thinking it over, I found it to be reasonable because if someone is homosexual, that means he or she is attracted to people of the same gender. But what's more, very often there are social characteristics--body language, tone of voice, vocal inflection...--culturally associated with gender. I know we're not supposed to presume that behavior follows biological gender. But if someone is attracted to the traits of a given gender despite the biological gender of the people available to her/him, like a gay man being attracted to "very straight male" characteristics or a lesbian being attracted to "very straight female" characteristics, I don't see why such a person would be able to change his/her, um, excuse the expression, gender polarity. After all, regardless what the PC police would say, not many straight women are attracted to effeminate appearing and acting men, and vice versa for many straight men.
I hope you find someone to love who'll love you back just as much.