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My ex was straight and loved women but enjoyed the stimulation of the prostate gland that a strap-on provided. It also turned him on being dominated that way by a woman. Does that mean he's straight or is it a homoerotic tendency? He hasn't settled down and I know he sees hookers because most girls he dates aren't willing to do that with him.
The truth here is it is not gay. He enjoys dominatrix. The other truth here is that majority of society will say he is gay because he took it up the butt and likes it. Being gay means being attracted sexually to the same sex.
To be homosexual means to be sexually attracted to the same sex.
A woman wearing a strap-on is not a man, therefore it does not make him gay or gay-curious. He simply likes his prostrate stimulated. All guys do, once they have experienced it for the first time. It's the most wonderful feeling.
I don't nescesarily think someones gay just because they like their asshole stimulated. He may just like the way it feels just as some women do. I'd consider him gay when he started doing it with men.
First off "straight man" does not automatically mean "wants to dominate"; many men like powerful women. In fact it's not unusual to have men who are in powerful positions who get a thrill out of throwing off the "dominate job persona" and acting the sub.
Second... he's your ex. Since you're not in his bed why does it matter what he does in his own?
the prostate is basically the equivalent of a females clitoris. Does that mean that every woman who likes oral sex because it's focused on the clit is now a lesbian? no. Your ex (btw, how's this your business what he does now?) just enjoys ORGASM-ING. which is insanely difficult for a guy to have without prostate stimulation.
(there's a difference between cumming and orgasm-ing)