Is it normal for a guy who likes me to reject my calls when he's busy?

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A pisces guy whom I work with on a daily basis (he is my supplier) calls me everyday at work to chat. He told me he likes me before. However, sometimes when I call him in the evening, he would claim that he is busy and says "ttyl" but never call back. He would even reject my calls and says he's really busy. His work requires him to go for setups in the evening and nights but I find his behavior suspicious. Also, during weekend, he would not contact me. Then on Monday, he would call. I would then ask him "wassup" and he would say "hmm... nothing. I haven't hear from you for days, so just wanna see how are you doing?"

So, is it normal for a guy who is really busy at work to reject calls from a girl whom he likes?

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Based on 49 votes (28 yes)
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  • 4theloveofdez
    12 years ago

    My first instinct would be he's married or in a relationship and can't chat with you while he's around his wife/girlfriend. It seems as though it would be more convenient with him to talk to you while he's away from home, and while he's home he's "too busy"

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  • acepenta@gmail
    13 years ago

    why wonder.....get his address and go and see how he is messing with your mind.....It sounds like you only have a "chat" relationship so why the demands from your side........if you engage with him sexually I wont be surprised if the venue is neutral....

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  • scandinavia
    13 years ago

    married!

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  • ttty
    13 years ago

    Or he's married. And busy with his wife and kids.

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    He sounds like he could be married or has a girlfriend. Ask him straight up about his weirdness, "are you married...do you have a girlfriend?" Don't take anything he says seriously if he hasn't asked you out on a real date and you haven't seen his place. It's possible he could be in a relationship and just sniffing around you for some side action. And you don't wanna be the other woman cause it's hella bad Karma! Also just because some jerk says he "likes you" doesn't mean you have to "like him" back. Even if you were interested in him before he approached you it still sounds like he's playing games with you. Don't waste your time with someone who sends you mixed signals if you don't wanna get mixed up.

    P.S. What difference does it make if he's a Pisces?

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  • coolio75650932
    11 years ago

    hes busy thats all

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  • mike5616
    13 years ago

    Im a pisces two and its hard for me to atach myself to someone. When I like someone I tend to reject them and try to avoid them. A very bad behavior to have but its just hard to get all the atention that comes with love and instead I rather keep the friendship.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Well he is at work, and most likely busy

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Is this your second post? What's up with using the term "setup" in both?
    Oh and if you have doubts...move on.

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