Is it normal for a guy to want to cum several times a day?

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My fiancee seems to want to cum every time we kiss, or he touches almost any part of my body. He seems like he's ALWAYS in the mood and I can't keep up. We've been dating for a little over a year now and it's getting a little tiring trying to keep up with him wanting to cum all the time, especially when a lot of the time I'm just not in the mood. But I feel like if I don't he'll want it somewhere else or get mad at me, and when he gets mad about it it'll last a couple days, or until he gets to cum. Is this normal?

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  • sleepingbeauty
    12 years ago

    It will probably wear off eventually and then you'll be craving for him to touch you, even if its just once a week!

    In my experience for all their bravado and talk, men appear to have a much lower sex drive than women in the long term.

    I would suggest that you agree certain 'nights off', that you pre-arrange with him for example: wednesday nights is a girly bath and pamper night and sunday night is for resting before returning to work the next day etc. That way you both know where you stand and it will reduce both your stress levels.

    The other thing I would suggest is to remember that foreplay is not just a word that women invented, but really does help, all that kissing and stroking before full sex serves a purpose!

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    • magschris12391
      12 years ago

      Well, I forgot to mention that he's gone Monday thru Friday for work out of town. So when he gets back he's all over me. So, I don't nag at him about it too much. But then the weeks he works here in town it's pretty much the same thing, so THEN I think he, or I, have a problem haha.

      I DO crave for him to touch me because I miss it throughout the week, but EVERY time SOMETHING happens, he HAS to finish, or he's in a bad mood for the rest of the day and maybe even the day after..

      Sometimes I just want affection, or to give out affection, without having to finish him off.. Does that sound selfish.. ? :/

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      • sleepingbeauty
        12 years ago

        No you don't sound selfish, sometimes a good snuggle is what feels right. I am happy to start something and finish it off later, but I have to admit if it isn't finished off later, I will get a bit stressed myself lol.

        When he's away, be prepared for sex when he's home, wind yourself up for it, stimulate yourself with naughty texts or phone calls. Then go for the affection when you are both satisfied and calmer.

        When he is around in the week, definitely schedule in 'nights off', you'll be surprised how much that will help you both, being able to be affectionate but knowing there is a line, from the outset.

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  • perv29
    11 years ago

    Of course its normal! Look, us girls are different, get us hot and we can go from one orgasm to another. Fuck, I can have 5 or 6 on a row with the right man!

    Something else to remember is, guys have to cum, if they don't and are sexually active, they can get congested in their balls.

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