Is it normal for a guy to want a female body?

I feel that I'm a woman in a man's body. I consider myself to be lesbian. I wear ladies clothes as much as I can. I always wear ladies knickers, tights, blouses and trousers. I also have a pair of silicone breasts which allows me to wear bras. But what I really want is to have the natural figure of a woman and to do away with this thing I have between my legs. I want to be able to have periods once a month, like real women.

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  • jibjab553226

    well if you do get a sex change you will have a female body but no periods. you aren't a born female.

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  • Coolieo

    Uh, having periods aren't really fun...

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    • blueeyes1361

      Why I want periods, is simple. Next to child birth, which I know I will never happen to me - although I want it, periods are somthing which only women have and is somthing men will never experience - it's a special thing for women - some women wish they would stop, but it's one thing special and unique for women.

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    • blueeyes1361

      I want to be a women for many reasons - it's not just because they have a boobs, a vagina and skin wich is is smooth and soft. Woman are more caring, affectionate and gentel - motherly. Men try to be matcho and childish. When you walk down the street, you see women hugging and kissing eachother when they say hello and goodbye - have you ever seen men show this affection to eachother? Women will walk to gether arm in arm - peolple acccpt this - what would you think if you saw men doing this? I don't have the matcho looks men men have nor do I have the match way men walk and talk. Often when on the phone I get called Miss, because I don't have a deep voice like men do.

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      • -Solitude-

        Those are stereotypes (and, admittingly being hypocritical, I have noticed that a lot of times women appear to act nicely to each other, but it's really just an act. The "friends" are really in fierce competition with each other, and talk crap about each other behind each others' backs. Of course not all relationships between women are like this, but as a woman it can sometimes be difficult to stay away from these groups). It's important to realize that people are individuals. But I certainly agree that what you stated is how society wants us to behave. I have nothing against you identifying yourself as a woman, but you sound like you're saying that everything about women is perfect, and that being a woman has no cons and is an absolute paradise. I'm just warning you that this isn't the case.

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        • blueeyes1361

          I agree that being a woman is not always perfect. It's not just the loving a woman can give that makes me want to be one. I hate the way I look - I hate my penis, just looking at myself naked in the mirror all I see is this horrable thing that gets in the way. I get sexual urges and feel the need to masterbate and when I cum it makes me physically sick and yet I like the the taste of it. Why do I put myself through this!?

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          • Lonely2

            Its totally 2 different things to say you want a womens body and you love how women act and treat each other....do you want a womans body or not?

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  • redoctober

    Take hormones then get your dick chopped off in thailand. Done.

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    • blueeyes1361

      I've been to see my doctor a number of times, but he seems very reluctant to take me seriously. If I had the money to for everything I'd have been a girl years ago.

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      • Lonely2

        A primary care doctor is not the doctor to see about this.....first you will need a psychiatrist...I am not saying that because I think you are crazy....I am being serious...even if you decide you want a sex change you will need clearance from a psychiatrist or a licensed psychologist.....then you start taking hormones under an endicrinologist for at least a year you have to live as the other sex....then you can have sex reassignment surgery

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      • redoctober

        Well let me know how it works out. If your hot ill marry you.

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  • MysterionFrance

    that's why i hate the human body... We cannot choose our gender by will...
    I am sorry for you
    This tear is for you

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    • blueeyes1361

      Thank you

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      • MysterionFrance

        you are welcome, madame

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        • Lonely2

          We cant choose our sex but we can choose our gender

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  • Moonbow

    If he's queer.

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    • blueeyes1361

      I'm not into men, I like women. I just hate being a man!

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      • Coolieo

        Why do you hate being a man?

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  • Westone

    LGBQT isn't always about sexual preference.Its about self-discovery.

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  • Westone

    Well...seek your local LGBQT groups...they have some weekly meetings where you can talk and meet others who feel like you do. See if your feelings are what they are. Being transgendered isnt the end of the world or even gender euphoric. Its about you and what you want in your life. What wouldnt be normal is suppressing your feelings for others. Some transgendered people never transition completely. Good luck on your endeavors.

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  • HK28

    I agree im a girl who wants to be a guy. I dont want to have my period once a month and I dont want to go through pregnancy and all. I wish that I was a guy.

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  • are you hurting anyone? Probaly not. Are you happy? Do what makes you happy, FUCK eveyone else. Talk to someone who specializes in this field they can help you better then any of us. good luck.

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  • meowpower

    Aw its upsetting that u hate itself:/ just on what I've read and skimmed on the comments, just like the comment above, perhaps u cud be transgendered? Since u do wear female clothes as, biologically a man. Do whatever makes YOU feel happy. U only have one life. This is UR life.
    There's this really good and interesting show called My Transsexual Summer. 4 or so episodes about 45min long. It follows the lives of various transgendered individuals. Perhaps it could help find yourself a bit. Its inspiring,opened my eyes nd allowed myself to b more accepting of transgendered people. You can watch it on YouTube.

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    • blueeyes1361

      If I am transgendered, what can I do about it? I'm desperate to have a female body!

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      • Lonely2

        I dont think you are despearate to have a female body...I think you think you are ugly and woman are beautiful.....I often feel the same way...guess what you probably will feel ugly as a woman too

        Being a man we are not attracted to ourselves

        You have low self esteem ....join the club...try counseling

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  • Avant-Garde

    You may be transgendered.

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  • dodongos

    You lost me at periods...

    But, I know how you feel. I think I should be a woman. I wear the pants at least.

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  • Cambo_b

    I believe completely in evolution. I don t follow my belief in god through any religion. I follow god through my own belief that there must be a creator wethere it's a living thing or an event and I agree it is extream to believe we will be be take to a place like heaven but I like to my options open haha. But we as humans are born the way we are because of the natural laws of selection if u feel more feminine and more womanly it doesn't mean u need a vigina. The problem may be there aren't an people like you with a male body and a female personality. But the fact is there is people like you lots of them and if you want to feel truelly fulfilled go out and find people like you. Make friends and social groups with them you feel more at place than just having a fake vagina withch by the way - you still won't be able to have kids or experience a woman's orgasim so it's really just a poor imitation - your problem may just be that you like many more people like you just feel out of place because it's such a hush hush subject. Wethere it would be a woman who feels more like a man of visversa if you if you get in to social groups with people similar to you self you and they will feel more comfortable with there body the way it's naturally is peace

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    • blueeyes1361

      I wish I was content with my body - the fact is I hate my body - I look ugly, this thing I have between my legs is a total turn off for me. I have no figure. I hate my penis I hate intercourse with women but love oral with women. I do not find men the slightest bit attractive. When I masterbate I get physically sick as I hate the texture and look of my sperm - it's not natural for any man to feel this way!

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      • Lonely2

        you sound like you have body dysmorphic disorder....you feel you are ugly....many women feel this way too.

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  • Cambo_b

    You were born the way you were becase that's the naturally selection of life and no one should change how they are born its immoral and against the naturally laws of nature and is a defying god even though I'm not some bible bashed I still believe god made us in his eye and in his eyes eyes only

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    • Lonely2

      If being born the way he is is natural, then your saying him hating himself is natural...I love how you natural folks always say what is natural...but then discard the parts you dont agree with.....

      is cuttting our hair and shaving natural..or our finger nails...or wearing clothes....or brushing our teeh...are these body modifications too.?

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    • blueeyes1361

      From a religous point of view, I can understand what you say. Maybe you could tell me why I feel like this and have always felt and beleived that I am a woman. Personally I beleive in evolution and think religion is peoples way of comforting themselves, that they will live for ever, when you die it's a nice thought that you will live in another life (heaven) but I don't beleive that.

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  • anonymous_wolf

    Everything up to the periods part is normal. I'm sure if you had one you wouldn't want one.

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    • blueeyes1361

      I wish I could experience everything about being a woman and having periods is somthing that woman have.

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      • anonymous_wolf

        Nothing wrong with that. Just my opinion.

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  • popperpop

    Can't help you with the periods. However I hear of that here and there...but one question; You like women and most likely enjoy sex with them, so in a way if you got a sex change you'd be doing the same thing but in a different outfit

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    • blueeyes1361

      No not atall - I like women and I have had sex with them but it was my way of trying to make me feel like a normal man, but I have always been repulsed by the look and feel of sperm and the thought of it being inside a woman makes me gag. I only enjoy giving women oral and do not like intercourse.

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      • popperpop

        But if you became a woman yourself, would you rather sleep with a man? I'm a little unclear about a few things

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        • blueeyes1361

          I consider myself to be lesbian and would only be interested in a relationship with another women - I find men physically repulsive.

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  • dirtytalk

    No what you have is a personality disorder, it isn't you thinking that way your brain is tricking you. it is the same with homosexuality.

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    • blueeyes1361

      What do you mean?

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  • BlamelessCulprit

    Many people suffer from this. It's called transgender. There are procedures you can get like gender reassignment and breast augmentation.

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    • BlamelessCulprit

      The process of transitioning usually involves taking hormones. Like, if a biological male took estrogen to become female, or a biological female takes testosterone.

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      • blueeyes1361

        I've been to my doctor many times. He was supposed to send me to see a specialist and yet nothing. I keep going back and he tells me he'll follow it up - still nothing. Can I buy female hormones over the counter to get things moving?

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        • Lonely2

          You 're not a true transgender...you have body dysmorphia disorder...real transgender do not necessarily hate the body of one sex...they just feel they are in fact the opposite sex and have acted as if they are from very young ages...

          You would already being acting and dressing as a female since as long as you can remember

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  • SuperBenzid

    Well I think most guys want the female body just not in that way.

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