Is it normal for a guy to use too much tongue while kissing?

Ok so me and my bf had our first French kiss the other day but he basically just shoved his tongue in my mouth. It was kind of gross. He is also the first bf I've ever had so that might just be my opinion but I always imagined it more romantic. What do I do? Please help!!

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  • karmasAbich

    I was guilty of this with my first frenchy

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  • Energy

    Haha, give him a break! The kid's new at this sounds like. Just practice more, and tell him how you like it ;)

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    • TerryVie

      this ;) probably his first french kiss, and he misunderstood "using your tongue" a bit. practice will help, also do tell him that your tongues should have a "dialogue", not an "interrogation"... ;)

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  • Raverbasher

    Just tell him what you like, but be gentle about it! You might totally give him a complex. Don't be negative, maybe introduce it as "hey, why don't we try kissing like this!" and get him to be more gentle, soft and less aggressive.

    It's your first time kissing so it's important to get it right at the start. If it's his first time too, he'll need some coaching and you'll have to do it, cos he'll have no idea what he's doing. Yes, it's not particularly romantic now, but communicate and explain, and the romance will definitely come later. If you can nail the kissing it's magic. Just, like I said, be gentle and positive. Most guys will be sensitive about being instructed on this stuff, although we do appreciate it.

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  • Malaglinir

    I did this the first time I made out. I don't do it anymore because people don't like it. But, I don't get the problem at all, I think it would be pretty hot if a girl stuck her tongue in my mouth.

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  • wearygirl

    Well he's had gf's before he's my first and I really don't want to hurt his feelings

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    • Saycheese

      It's better to let him know now. He's your boyfriend come on... if it hurts him a little he'll get over it and trust me he would want to know. :)

      If he gets angry then he needs to grow up.

      Everybody has their own preference on kisses I'm sure too.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    tell him to use less tongue and more lips

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  • zchristian

    Maybe he doesnt know how to do it right...

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