Is it normal for a guy to not really enjoy a threesome?

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my gf wanted to surprise me so she asked one of my friends to have a threesome with me and she said yes. so when i got to my gfs house both my gf and my friend were there and my friends pants were off i asked why she was there and my friend said she was just hanging out then my gf said oh your going to fuck her and they both laughed. and my gf said come on every guy wants this this is for you and they took me to bed room. so i was surprised but then i thought this is sort of cool and i didnt mind having sex with my friend she was fine. but while i was actually doing it it was hard to do. 2 gils at the same time hard to concentrate on and i dont think i did very good because there was just to much going on. i think i embarrassed myself and do better with just my gf or maybe its just because it was a surprise and i wasnt expecting it because and wasnt ready because im fine with just my gf. am i bad will it better next time?

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  • Dad
    11 years ago | pl

    Its ironic but I really wanted this too. So I thought.
    I finally had a Gf who had a model looking (gf) friend of her own, who said lets do a threesome.
    Both girls were all for it.

    But its like when an employer finally says 'you've got the job', and all of a sudden you think to yourself, 'wait, do I really want this job? Even though I've tried so hard to get it!'

    Since I REALLY liked/loved my Gf at the time (ironically) I seriously did not want to have sex with other girls! I basically didn't want to share our sexual experience with anyone else!

    For me, I think it would be all go, if I wasn't actually romantically involved with either one of them (or anyone else). It would just be 'sex', like a one night stand.
    But as a couple already, I surprised myself (and her) and said No. I wasn't after a 'model' looking girl for sex, I wanted someone I had feelings for.

    So its a bit double ended.
    I'd love a 3some just for wild sex
    But not when I'm in a relationship with someone I truly wanted to be with. (Even just holding her all night long, was worth more than sex with anyone else)

    Yes/No

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  • prasatko
    11 years ago

    I am highly suspicious of the people who think that they know that "every guy wants this or that" - it seems that they read too much Cosmopolitan stuff and take it too seriously... There is no such thing that every guy would want, believe me...

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    i had 2 threesomes and didnt like it either it wasnt hard but not much going on

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  • Tazwiz
    11 years ago

    Well I'm sure it's normal!!! But I'm a girl and I'm sure there are plenty of men who will disagree helpfully! You kind of doomed yourself posting this comment by the way! I wouldn't worry about it x

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  • dinz
    11 years ago

    If I was a kid in a toy shop - I would spaz on the floor.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    It's OK to not want a 3some.

    Some men turn down MMF trios because they don't want to rub cocks inside her.

    Some men turn down FFM trios because they feel like a 3rd wheel.

    And sometimes some men just think it's nasty. it's OK to feel that way. If you don't want to do something sexual no one should force you into it.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    Hah, you got the yips. :P

    It's normal. I do think three ways are pretty fun, but they are a lot more work than just fooling around with one person. XD If you weren't expecting it and weren't prepared, all that nervousness and newness probably made it hard for you to enjoy it.

    If you want to try it again ever, just relax, go with the flow and put as little pressure on yourself as possible. Better if you enjoy it and let things naturally take their course than worry about performance.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    I've never had a threesome but I always think the same thing. You have to concentrate hard enough with just one woman squirming about. MFF must be the toughest of the combinations.

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    • RapidlyRotatingPanda
      11 years ago

      But would you rather have a MMF? Really? The "uncool kind"?

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      • shade_ilmaendu
        11 years ago

        Fuck yeah I would. Eiffel Tower!

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        • RapidlyRotatingPanda
          11 years ago

          IT crowd? I wanna say IT crowd...

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          • shade_ilmaendu
            11 years ago

            I beg your pardon?

            I've heard of that but I don't really know anything about it, haha.

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            • RapidlyRotatingPanda
              11 years ago

              Eiffel tower! Was something Douglas and a few other characters would say when proposing some crazy sex crazed party of a night.
              Excellent show, I advise you watch EVERY SINGLE EPISODE!

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