Is it normal for a guy to miss these traits because of a pretty face?

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There is this girl that parties a lot that he likes but has a boyfriend. She is all huggy with my friend too, even though she is moving to be with her boyfriend that she got with after she did not talk to my friend after a while. She said she liked him but I guess not that much if she did not get in contact with him on facebook. She has been with her boyfriend not even 6 months. She was going to move near him and be in a shelter to be with this guy. Then she ended up to decided to move in with a friend. She drinks while a family member watches her kid. She still partied even though her child was sick, but went to sleep. She had to go home one night because of that to put her back to sleep. She goes out all day with her kid. She has no job and her friends pay for everything. she got arrested when her parents called the cops when she was at the beach for being there late. She already went to court for supposedly giving money away at walmarts when she worked there. Would you go out with her because she was hot even though she is like this.

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21% Normal
Based on 38 votes (8 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You can help them***

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Look I feel your frustration but what other people do is out of your control. Realize that you can be there for them, you can halogen through their mistakes but it's not your responsibility nor ur place to try and control the situation. And yeah u even seem jealous. Get over ur own feelings first before u asses what's going on.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    13 years ago

    Why do you care?

    It sounds more like you're jealous. And that you're dragging her through the mud to feel better about yourself... and perhaps to justify how much you hate her for being so popular.

    Why don't you focus on taking care of your own life... instead of whining about how she's living hers?

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    • teardrop06
      13 years ago

      Well when this blows up in his face, I am the one stuck with dealing with his broken heart. Do you have any idea what it is like to help a friend go through depression and not know what to say to cheer them up. I want to know what to tell him when this happens and not just say everything is going to be ok.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        13 years ago

        Sometimes you have to let someone make their own mistakes.

        Including getting a heart broken.

        He's not a baby. He's a human being with the capacity to think for himself. Even if you disagree with his choices.

        You can be there for him, tell him how special he is etc....
        but if you try to break him up with someone else that he wants... it might blow up in your face.

        When you make a man chose between you and the other girl... sometimes they pick the other girl.

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        • teardrop06
          13 years ago

          Well i am not breaking them up. She already has a boyfriend. He is trying to get with her still. I just usually go do my thing and talk to other guys and it gets frusated because he said he liked her yet never made the effort to stay in contact. Even though he was still able to stay in contact with me. He wants to go visit her and take me. Yet I dont think that is a good idea because she just told me that she is going to be moving in with her boyfriend soon. He does not know this and I dont think her bf is going to like to have a guy come over to see her that likes her. So i wont be going. He is on his own if he wants to chase a girl with a boyfriend.

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          • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
            13 years ago

            It sounds like he's going to have to learn the hard way then.

            And sometimes life's like that. Sometimes it doesn't matter how many times someone else tells you "it's not going to work"... until you learn it for yourself, you think there's still a chance.

            Believe me I know this... I was the one who had to learn it for myself.

            Did it hurt? Yes.
            Did I get over it? Yep. Sure I had times when I cried so hard it hurt to be that sad... but I got over it.
            Could someone have stopped me from trying? No. And yes people tried.

            I had to learn for myself and make my own mistakes. And I came out just fine in the end. :-)

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  • wreckd
    13 years ago

    What your friend does with her life is none of your business. If he likes her, he likes her and will deal with it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I completely think this is just another gossip story to spread gossip with others online and not actual intended to ask if its normal or not. Please gossip with your friends not the IsItNormal community.

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    • teardrop06
      13 years ago

      Actually I really want to know, why do all guys go for girls like this because I never get guys yet girls like this who are irresponsible do. so how is is gossip to use a real life situations.

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      • BoredGuy
        12 years ago

        they would, if they were looking to get married. Most don't wanna anyway.

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      • [Old Memory]
        13 years ago

        Most guys arent looking for responsible women incase you havent figured that out. Appearance is everything in this world if you really want guys to want you then lowering your self respect and pride is key. I dont recommend doing it though I would keep my pride rather than lower my self respect.

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        • teardrop06
          13 years ago

          Thank you for your response. This seems like the only good reasonable answer. I got a lot out of it.

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