Is it normal for a guy to like a girl but not want to date her?

Specifically if it was a white guy and a black girl and the reason for him not dating her is only because shes black.

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Based on 46 votes (22 yes)
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  • changes123

    You're saving her the trouble.

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  • dom180

    It's his own loss, then.

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  • GuessWho

    That's very reasonable. People really should make an effort to preserve their genes, heritage, race, etc.
    Races exist for a reason - to keep separate cultures separate.
    With all the mixing in today's society, nobody knows what they are and where they fit in anymore.
    It's very unfair on the children of mixed-race couples.

    If you have pure blood, keep it pure.

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    • Anime7

      But if everybody doesn't know what their heritage is, then that's a good way to slowly eliminate racism.

      I don't where you're from but in America, we've long been called the melting pot so I think it's great that people are having interracial relationships, it really shows that we've progressed.

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      • GuessWho

        It also goes about pride.
        Pet owners and breeders can be so proud of their pedigree dogs and cats, yet so few humans actually bother protecting the purity of their own bloodline like that.
        I wouldn't call the elimination of authenticity progress.
        I don't see how anyone could ever be proud of being a mixed-breed.

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        Also, I have lived in America long enough to see how things are there.
        One of the things I noticed is that the most "racist" communities are the most mixed ones.
        People don't typically "hate" other races until they are are exposed to the different culture.

        Interracial relationships also give rise to a whole new level of racism as, for example, a child of a black/white couple will be accepted in neither the black community, nor the white community.

        Many interracial relationships are also done for selfish reasons - e.g gaining money or citizenship to another country.

        "Truth is not Racist" and "Facts are not Hate" but people are ignorant of the truth and facts because they suggest that "not all people are the same"

        "The melting pot" is ultimately just leading to the moral and social degradation of society.

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        I'm just gonna leave it at that. If I had to present all the facts and statistics to make you see things my way, I'll be up all night and, no offence, but I'm not going to spend an entire evening just to educate one person.

        If you want to know the truth, you just need search hard enough and you will find everything you need to know. Don't let "racist guilt" blind you to the facts.
        (This doesn't only apply to this topic, but everything in life.)
        (And if you read this far, you may be up to it.)

        If you don't have the courage to face the truth, disregard my entire message and keep living your life as you are now.
        After all, ignorance is bliss.

        (It's just sad that most of the population is ignorant of humanity's real problems and have been brainwashed to believe whatever their governments want them to.)

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        • Anime7

          Let people breed with whoever they want. Throw pride aside. I've never seen people be racist towards half black/white children. I think your white supremacist view is partially dated, racism still exists, (clearly you're a racists). But learn to let people breed with whoever they want, if you want to remain pure, then alright it's your life, but don't force that lifestyle on others and don't look down on them for not living their life the way you do.

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          • GuessWho

            The fact that you're so eager to make assumptions and accusations about someone you've never met is shocking.
            Honestly, I don't care about the choices that other people make in their lives.

            I'm simply encouraging people not to be ashamed of their heritage and preference for their own race.
            Or even better, encouraging people to be proud of their heritage and their choice to further their own race.

            It's just a shame that being proud of who I am equates to being "racist" - even though it has nothing to do with actual racism.

            And if you want me to counter you in the name-calling war:
            "You're a sheep."

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            • Anime7

              Alright, I'll admit I shouldn't make accusations about others online, I'm sorry I called you a racist. However, you are a white supremacist and that is apparent. If you don't care about the choices that people make, then why are you here offering others advice on what they should do? Clearly in some ways you care and you want to spread your beliefs. I can understand wanting to preserve your heritage, that's fine and I can understand that. But now what you're preaching contradicts your previous statement. "I'm simply encouraging people not to be ashamed of their heritage." You were talking about how people shouldn't go around having mixed children, now you're saying to love your heritage whether you're mixed or not. If you are not referring to mixed children then I retract what I just said.

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  • Unimportant

    Is it normal for a guy to like a girl but not want to date her? -->>>> Yes, very much so.

    Specifically if it was a white guy and a black girl and the reason for him not dating her is only because shes black. -->>>> Well, it doesn't sound like he really likes her, then. I don't see this as normal.

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  • RoseIsabella

    This is sad but if race is an issue then there are others out there for whom it's not.

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  • KatieLiz

    Well that's a ridiculous reason :/

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