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i have been with a guy for more than 3 yrs... there i sno doubts that we love each other. but i m 25 now... my family wants me to get married... bt my guy has aversion to marriage.. he has mariage phobia... he can give me up but nt his phobia...i finally ended our realtion last night
is thr any hope tht he will change his mind
It's a terrible idea to try to force someone into a marriage. I think you've overplayed your hand if you think this will make him come back begging.
He might realise what he's lost and come back to you but I wouldn't like to give a guy an ultimatum (or the old trick of getting pregnant) to force marriage. I know many that have, and in every argument the man casts it up to the female.
3 years is not a long time anyway. All of my 4 siblings went out with their partners for 9 years before getting married (one is divorced now) and I went out with my husband for 6 years. It is not your family that have to stick him - but you!
You don't want a man who doesn't want commitment coz you would be left to bring children up alone etc.
Everything happens for the best, wait and see, it will all work out ok.