Is it normal for a guy to grope someone in his sleep?

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A few weeks ago I fell asleep beside my best guy friend (we're now dating). We have not had sex or anything like that, and he's been in love with me for a very long time. At some point we ended up spooning and I woke up to him feeling me up and rubbing his hand all over my body.

This happened with my last boyfriend when I spent the night at his place and slept in the same bed with him (no sex). Woke up to him groping me/feeling all over my body, asked him about it but he claimed he was asleep and doesn't remember it.

Do guys actually grope girls they are spooning with in their sleep? Or are they taking advantage of me when they think I'm sleeping? They were both good, decent 'nice guy' types and totally into me, if it matters.

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  • wiseoldlady
    11 years ago

    Guys get an erection every 90 minutes when they are asleep. They usually wake up with a boner. It's on their mind most of the time. So, yes, it's normal for him to feel you up when half asleep. Annoying, but normal.

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  • cmeatthetop
    11 years ago

    Its a sign of affection.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I once heard about a guy who raped his girlfriend in his sleep NJK.

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  • Sog
    11 years ago

    Hahaha asleep and doesn't remember it? My ass.

    But I mean sleeping in the same bed as a guy is just an open invitation for this kind of thing to happen unless you tell him otherwise.

    If it really makes you uncomfortable, next time sleep on the couch.

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    I used to be with a guy who would throw his leg over me and start humping vigorously. It was hysterical and he never remembered in the morning.

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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    Ha ha - how old are you?

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    Take advantage.

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  • captblood44
    9 years ago

    i've dreamed i was in a sexual situation and have groped or felt my ex up while we were sleeping. if she didn't like it, she shouldn't have stuck her booty in my groin area. i'm a a red blooded male for gawd's sake.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Sounds like this guy was just coping a feel. My boyfriend does that to me sometimes, but it's more of a sleepy half assed grab lol Not a full on body rubbing

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  • forever_anon
    11 years ago

    Yes, it's a type of parasomnia, or disorder in which a person does abnormal things while asleep and can't remember them the next day. My spouse has done this for as long as I can remember, ever since we started dating. He'll start feeling me up, but if I try to talk to him, he won't respond and I can't wake him up. We usually have a good laugh about it the next day.

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