Is it normal for a guy to disrespect me constantly, but i forgive him?

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I've been friends with this guy for like 7 years, but during the past 2 years we have been considering dating... you know just an option. He always disrespects me and treats me like he is my dad... but if he were half the man my dad is we wouldn't have issues. I think he has a lack of respect for me because he has a lack of respect for himself... he is insecure and treating me like i mean nothing makes him feel like he means something! HELP ME!!!

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  • fedoralady
    12 years ago

    Advice Taken... THANKS!!!

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  • Aleks85
    12 years ago

    I used to be like "this guy." But then I grew up. I sabotaged a lot of good relationships by being an asshole. I've learned a good girl deserves the utmost respect over the years. I suggest you teach him a lesson, otherwise he won't learn.

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  • fedoralady
    12 years ago

    Your right, I've always told him that I'm 1st prize, not 2nd but I didn't act like it. Oh... and consider his phone number DELETED...........

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  • fedoralady
    12 years ago

    Today I told this guy that I was going to forget that exsisted... I ignored him, but I'll eventually text him. Well, I hope I don't, he is an ASS!!!

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    • joybird
      12 years ago

      Delete his number without trying to memorise it then you won't text him. Anyway, you shouldn't be chasing after him - you should be a worthy prize for him, not the other way round!!

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    What's not normal is that you forgive him!!!

    You must also lack self-esteem!

    Catch a grip of yourself!

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  • big.z
    12 years ago

    I have done what the man does in the past . I found a girl that always forgave me for everything so I did whatever I wanted . She was crazy about me but I could care less I pretty much just used her . You can't really change him . A dickhead is a dickhead . Until he grows up I would leave him alone . I grew up, he might do the same !

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      im with you on this one dude i did the same and you need to get out of there before you get your heart broken stop overthinking why hes an asshole because it makes him feel important because either your overthinking it and trying to make excuses for him or he told you that because hes a LIAR wake up quick because it will never get better and you two have no future together MOVETHEFUCKON.COM

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