Is it normal for a guy to cheat on his girlfriend and then blame me?

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Here's what happened. I'm a girl, and there's this guy at work I'd been crushing on for a while. He had a girlfriend, but I knew he was hot for me anyway, because I'd often catch him staring at me and then look away embarrassed.
I saw him go into one of the store rooms at the back, so I followed him and locked the door and fucked him hard on the desk. It was SOOO hot!!
But then a bit later in the corridor I winked at him, but he just looked guilty and he turned around and walked away from me! I mean, what the hell? He cheated on his girlfriend with me, but he acts like it's all my fault.
Later that day I saw him just crying at his desk. He didn't come back to work for three days after that and now he won't look at me.
I just want to know is this normal and what should I do? Is there something wrong with me or is he just a pussy?

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Based on 14 votes (8 yes)
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  • davesumba
    10 years ago

    I'll be the first person to say that it is never the person who the cheater is fucking's fault. Because usually either the other person doesn't even know, or the cheater is the one who got himself into it.
    But in this case, it is your fault. You knew full well that he had a girlfriend, and you still decided to use your female seductive powers to prey on his weaknesses. You are a homewrecking slut.

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    • quentari
      10 years ago

      What?! "female seductive powers to prey on his weaknesses"? That is the biggest load of bullshit I've ever heard. Unless she actually RAPED him then it's not her fault in the slightest. It's 100% the cheaters fault. MAYBE she should have said "don't you have a girlfriend?" or refused because she knew, but she isn't obligated to make sure the guy doesn't fuck up. It's still the cheaters fault.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        10 years ago

        Exactly. Nice to have someone who agrees with me. If he was serious about her, he wouldn't have done it. And who's ever heard of a man who'd pass up on sex?
        I mean here's what happened: When I locked the door he saw me and looked away embarrassed again, and I said "Shhh" and touched him and he sort of froze. I grabbed his pants, and he was getting hard already. But then he pushed me away and started to mumble something, and this made me suddenly angry for some reason (I know, I'm weird, right?). But being mad just made me hornier (I LOVE angry sex) so I said to him "Shut up or I'll scream."
        Then I pushed him onto the desk and pulled off his pants and we had sex right there. I came in like 20 seconds, and I think he came at the same time, so unless he usually only lasts 20 seconds, he obviously thought it was great too.

        So is he doing his crybaby act because he's trying to make me feel guilty just because he regrets it and I don't?

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        • OtherSide
          10 years ago

          You said he pushed you away and tried to say something, but you carried on? That's RAPE, you evil bitch. Don't come on here and try to justify yourself. You know that what you did was wrong.
          Maybe you didn't physically force yourself on him, but you knew that threatening to scream would scare him into submission. The fact that you used the threat of accusing HIM of rape as a makes it even more despicable. I'm not surprised he was traumatized.

          You just posted this so you could boast about it, didn't you?

          You're a monster and I hope you end up in jail.

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            10 years ago

            Me a rapist??? Your being a fucking chauvinist. Men can't be raped by a woman. He had an erection, that means he wanted it.
            YOU are the monsters, so don't YOU start defending a jerk who can't control his dick! Your a hypocrite and I hope YOU end up in jail, because I bet you've raped a woman, haven't you? You make me sick. Pig

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            • imadragon
              10 years ago

              Men can be raped too. By men, by women, he can't control the blood-flow in his penis. I don't know if you raped him, but don't say that men can't be raped.

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        • quentari
          10 years ago

          Possibly.

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    Also he probably does blame you. Or maybe he told his girlfriend, or he feels guilty.

    Perhaps you shouldn't have instigated the sex but he is fully capable of saying no so it's still his fault, not yours.

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    You were a booty call, what's his problem?

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