Is it normal for a guy to be this way?

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My fiancé and I have been together two years but what's been bothering me might not be his fault..he was raised with all sisters, with that being said he's really emotional, and he's really picky, so much to the point he's very obvious (he'll make a face)..his clothes gotta fit like this, u can only do things this way, god forbid u cook cookies on something other than a cookie sheet, and its like this stuff is starting to aggravate me and I'm starting to be mean to him how do I deal with this? The constant emotions? And a man who is picky abt a lot of things under the sun?

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  • sheyne8203
    13 years ago

    Yeah, I agree with hellyjellybean, little peeves that are annoying now will only get deeper under your skin later. It could be good that you're seeing this now though before marriage so you can ponder on it. Sometimes annoying quirks only come out after marriage, so you're lucky in that way. I would have a hard time with that kind of behavior from a man.

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  • hellyjellybean
    13 years ago

    Okay, before I tell you what I think, I feel it's only fair to explain that I'm not exactly the voice of experience in these matters; I'm twenty-one and have never been engaged or anything, but I have lived with people who sound a bit like your fiance. Could you really live with a guy like that for the rest of your life? I couldn't. If he is irritating you a lot when you are only engaged and meant to be crazy about each other, I imagine once you have been married for a while you may very well run out of patience altogether. You are justified to feel like he is being far too pernickety and control freakish. It's not normal. Don't indulge his childish behaviour and explain to him that these things really /don't matter/. He needs to grow out of being such a spoilt drama queen. Bettter sort out this problem sooner than later, one way or the other. Well, that's what I'd do. I can't stand those kind of people.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I've been raised with two sisters and I'm not picky and all emotional like that. I guess that's just how he is. You can't blame being raised around girls. Tell him how it annoys you and maybe he will work on it to be less annoying to you.

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