Is it normal for a guy to be this keen even though he barely knows me?

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A couple of weeks ago, I met this guy on a night out through friends. I was a bit drunk and was looking for a bit of fun so I kissed him and we exchange numbers. When I left the bar to go home, about 30 seconds later he tried phoning me and was texting me saying he missed me, that I'm the most amazing girl he has ever met and stuff like that and I just thought it was because he has been drinking. But the next he continued texting me and face book messaging me and he was extremely full on, I was trying to be nice but probably unintentionally led him on. When he asked to meet up with me I lied and said that I have just got out of a long term relationship and am not ready to date, which he understood so I thought he would leave me alone. But he has not stopped texting and keep saying stuff like he is so glad he met me, that he loved my kisses and other stuff like. I tried to take ages to reply and not say much in return; when I did not reply he just sent more until I did. Last night he text me saying that I'm worth waiting for until Im ready to date, I should of told him then and there that I wasn't interested but I didn't I just said something like that's sweet. I regret leading him on because he is a nice guy, but I just didn't want to hurt his feelings and I have not had that much experience with guys, and Im a bit shy so I didn't know handle this. Is it normal for a guy to become so obsessed after a kiss on a night out? And how to do I let him down gently?

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Based on 32 votes (13 yes)
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  • dinz
    10 years ago

    You best to tell the truth and how he handles it is entirely up to him. A little side of empathy won't hurt.

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  • Vampyra
    10 years ago

    Wow-he is OBSESSED with you! Be upfront with him and tell him "NO!" immediately. No means no. If he doesn't understand rejection or your wishes to cut this off, you may want to get a restraining order. He sounds CRAZY! Some men are very dangerous, and I wouldn't take his behaviour lightly. Please protect yourself, and remember, you may have to get a restraining order against this obsessed man. Be careful and good luck. Stand your ground and don't be coy and send mixed signals.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Oh dear.

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