Is it normal for a guy to be rejected by every girl he has liked

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Okay so I'm a 18 year old guy who hasnt had a girlfriend since I was 12, in the last 6 years I have liked 5 different girls and each and every time I have been rejected. The first four of those girls were quite good looking, smart, outgoing and loud however the last girl (the one I also liked the most) was the most beautiful of the lot but she was also really shy, quiet, sweet, cute, nice and it took me a while to get her to start really having a good conversation with me. However even she rejected me. I'm 5 foot 10, fairly built and from what other people have told me I'm not bad looking, I'm funny, intelligent, really really nice and quite mature for my age, so is it normal that every girl I like, including the nicest sweetest girl ever, always rejects me?

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  • pandabear1209
    12 years ago

    These girls proly put you into the 'friend zone', perhaps you come across as more a friend then a potential date. Next time make it clear you want to date, when you see a cute girl just ask her out and get to know her later. Sometimes when you take the time to know a girl before asking her out she will think you are not attracted and will place you as a friend.

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  • missy18
    12 years ago

    Yeh, I respect you for not giving up. There'll definitely be someone who can appreciate you for who you are one day. Just a tip: Charm can usually win any girl over, regardless of your looks and other things. Of course I don't know if you are or not, but good luck.

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  • DubstepismyMJ
    12 years ago

    props man. mad respects for you to keep at it, dont give up, goodluck.

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  • Energy
    12 years ago

    You have to be way more flirty! It sounds like they Friend-Zone you.

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    • Rejection
      12 years ago

      The one girl that ive actually gotten really flirty with, ended up standing me up to hook up with her ex

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      • Energy
        12 years ago

        So what? Doesn't mean every single girl is like that!

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        • Rejection
          12 years ago

          I know but it did hurt a quite bit and I just always feel weird about flirting now

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  • gloryholeflasher
    8 years ago

    I see this is an old post already, but if you're still having problems you need to listen to Garth Brooks' song "Unanswered Prayers". Maybe you've already found the RIGHT girl, if not, hang in there because she's just around the corner. You don't have to lower your standards to find her because she's looking for somebody just like you, and when the two of you finally find each other you will both be so thankful for all the ones who weren't interested in you!

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  • WOWthatscool
    11 years ago

    OMG WOW 5 GIRLS REJECTED YOU TRY 37

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  • stridenttrident
    12 years ago

    Story of my life. No matter how flirty a girl can be, no matter how good it may seem you two are hitting it off. There is a large population of women who are good looking, know so, and use it to fuck with guys' heads. It's unfortunate, but that's the way of the world. You'll start to understand that and be a little bit colder (not necessarily a bad thing) toward women. There's a fine balance of being detached and interested that drives women crazy and want you more.

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  • Specter
    12 years ago

    Yeah, and it sucks. Best thing is to lower your standards and have lots of friendly sex with girls you aren't so keen on. Don't stew on the unfairness of it all. That way lies damnation.

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