Is it normal for a guy to be nonchalant all the time?
To make a long story short, I lost my virginity last year before my 24th bday to my ex boyfriend. We haven't dated in years but r still really good friends, so I was ready and asked if he would do it for me. B4 I asked him though I had developed feelings and I let that b known and he was cool with that. But there was no intimacy and I say he's just not into me. That was a little over a year ago and we haven't had sex since then, but he flirts, calls, texts all these nice things, but when in his presence nothing happens. He is a very respectable person who doesnt put an importance on just physical actions, and I know he finds me attractive. I'm not very direct but I know I don't send mixed signals, and I know he trusts me bc I'm conservative and have always been super nice...maybe overly nice now tht I think of it, but idk what else to do or I'd I'm reading thing wrongly. I thought that if guys want something, they go after it, so I can accept he's not into me, but he gives me mixed signals. Sn: I do need to try and relax a bit more bc once I realized my feelings I became a little tense around him, so from what I typed, is he just not into me? Dont judge me, but what r more direct flirting tips/signs? Thanks!!!