Is it normal for a guy to be bi curious

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So, I've been seeing this guy for a little over year and a half, and we have been living together for a year now. Once, before we were even living together, I was at his place on his computer. I went to craigslist to look for something...I think I was trying to find a bike...and when I got on the web page I could tell he was looking at the personals (the link was a different color), so I clicked on it to see wtf and he had been looking at the m4m adds. I confronted him about it right away and he said he was just clicking on stuff...and "do you really think I'm looking for some male on male action?!". Well since then I have always had it in the back of my head. I check the history on his computer and I see web pages like "hungangels" (tranny-porn)...and he's also downloaded quite a few transexual porns/pictures. How normal is this?! We have gotten in fights over it...one a few weeks ago. I thought it would finally be dealt with, but a few days agao he took another trip to craigslist m4m. Ugh. I need to know how noraml this is, and if it isn't I am ready to pack up and leave!! Some guy opinions on this would be great!!

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  • Andyen
    11 years ago

    Bi curious for sure. Unless he has acted on his sextual instinks then he is probibly bi-curious. I myself a couple years back was in a relationship with a girl. She found out I was bi-curious and broke up with me, enough though she herself was bi. I agree with Scottman586, that talking to him in an understanding fasion may prompt him to tell you more. I mean, if your getting angrey at him, your basically filling his head with the horrors that will come after he tells you. Bisextual males are more commen then you think, so if he is, there isn't anything wrong with that, just know he's capible of loving you back. But if you want him to stop going on those sites, read up more on why he may be going on those sites, read up on bisextual tendicies, educate yourself and maybe get a more bigger understanding on where he might be coming from. Coming out is one of the hardest things to do. So as his partner, help him through it.

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  • scottman586
    13 years ago

    He might be bi, or even gay. Try talking to him about it in an understanding way (after all, if he's bi it doesn't neccesarily mean he wants to break up with you). You could even try suggesting a threesome with another man (even if you don't intend to go through with it) and see how he reacts.

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