Is it normal for a guy to be bi curious?

This is the normal progression that a lot of us take when transforming from what most consider to be a normal straight guy into one who is more open-minded and more understanding about our true selves. We have our first, very slight thoughts about being with another guy. These thoughts eventually turn into a real wondering of how it might be. Then the visual kicks in, wherein we imagine ourselves actually being with someone of the same sex. This quickly escalates into true sexual arousal whenever we have these thoughts and images. For a long time we may just be content with using these as aids for masturbating. At some point in time we then discover that we are only thinking of other guys instead of women when we're jacking off, and that our orgasms are quicker to arrive and are much more intense than when we used to use mental images of women. This stage may last a long time as it is, and may never progress further, or we may find ourselves digging deeper into trying to find out more about these new-found motivations. This may result in watching gay porn to actually see what sex -- in all its variations -- looks like between two men. Some of this may disgust us at first, but some of it will excite us like never before. We'll search for just the right videos to masturbate to, and it will become a frequent occurrence. Now we are at the point of no return. Either we'll decide to seek out someone to enjoy male sex with -- or we won't. If we do, and if it turns out to be a pleasant experience, we'll crave sex with other guys forever.
None of these feelings that we have along the way can be ignored or denied to ourselves. We may or may not like them, but they are there, nonetheless. If we try to stifle them, we are just going to be miserable. Those of us who are willing to accept them view our new-found bisexuality as a gift. Our lives haven't been changed drastically, but only altered in a profound, wonderful direction. We still have our same friends, our same relationships, our same careers, and on and on. We can still maintain most everything we've ever believed, but at the same time, shed any misguided opinions we may have had on the subject of sex in the past.

So to answer your question, I can't tell you what to do, but to just follow what your thoughts provide you. You will find your way eventually, and if it is what you truly desire, it will be right for you. And yes, of course, the thoughts and anguish you're feeling are quite normal. Many of us have been there before you.

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You've got a strong desire to suck cock along with a lot of self-loathing going on here. A bad mix and pretty confusing to me also. You don't want to be gay but want to suck dick. Well, OK. Then don't and do. Gay men are socially and romantically interested in other men. You're not. I'm not. But I suck cock and love it. Very masculine, married, etc. But later today I will be between a guy's legs with his cock in my mouth and loving it. You can and should do the same. You keep going back for what you want. There's nothing wrong in what you're doing and you're not gay. Shed your inhibitions and enjoy yourself.

am married man, l ask my wife if she like to see me give a guy a blow job, she said yes right away, with in a week, she had men from her work, coming over, she really got off, like it so much & l now we have have partys on some weekend, of 4 to 6 men, my wife love watching me giving blow jobs, & l really enjoy it. my wife call, me at home & partys, by my name cocksuck. wife has not giving up her pussy, to any of the men l suck off. l still have great sex with my loving open minded, wife. the truth be known, few men don't like sucking cock.

i ment no longer crossed my mind as in after i jacked off. and i did but i think it had to do a lot with the whole hard times with the gf. idk maybe the feeling of just doing somthin i shouldnt, or feeling of knowing i pleased somone else. prob just too horney cause like i said it turns into somthing NASTY and REPULSIVE afterwards or after jackin off, once im not horney anymore, ya know? and thanks jazzyjim, good advicee and very understanding. but sucking dick makes you gay?

Yes, and a little less than a year ago, and disgusting and repulsive each time the second i started. but the thought crosses my mind if I'm not getting any action for a little while. but after i jerk off or somthin the thought suddenly turns into somthing i'd never do, somthing horriblt wrong and NASTY!! no longer even crosses my mind

Did you go back and try it again after that first time with another guy or not?

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I'm in the same boat as you I'm married but curious about giving a man a bj haven't done it before, but my desire is strong just don't know how to make it happen

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just once more, it was after me and my gf broke up after a year and a half, right after and i think it was just the feeling of freedom and happyness because for a good 7 months i was pretty miserable in the relationship, and actuallly thats when i tried it for the first time when we were going through a really bad time and i just was totally unhappy and stressed with a lot going on in my life. LOVE WOMEN to death, dont look at guys, think there hot or cute, anything, the suckin dick thing was the only thing that every crossed my mind, other then that i find it extremly repulsive and LOVEE eating pussy and being withn women, would NEVER or have never even thought about a relationship with a dude, definitly about women though. After that second time i never did it since, almost a year i guess, i havent been gettin much action lately cause full time college and 2 part time jobs so it crossed my mind but told myself i would never do it again so i figured id post, thanks for all the help and commments guyss, also u guys have any person stories or experiences besides the advice that might help?