Is it normal for a guy to be angry all the time!

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My boyfriend is the type that always gets into fights with people! ever since me n him have been together he has calmed down abit.. but if i do the slightest thing wrong then he will go off at me! like if i get a msg on my phone and dont tell him that i did then he will get angry coz he reckons im trying to hide something! every day he will go through my phone.. its annoying coz i sometimes dont want him to read my msgs coz some of my mates might text me their personal problems or woteva n yer u get the drift. he gets angry if i try n talk to him about stuff, he will get angry if i wake him wanting to do 'stuff', he will get angry if i ask him if i can hang with one of my girl mates, he will get angry if i watch wat i wanna watch on MY tv, he will get angry when i try help him cook coz he says im stupid etc etc.. i could keep going on but i wont. He just snaps at evrything n i feel like i cant do anything right..

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    I agree with people above. He's no good for you and quite bad actually. You shouldn't have to fell worried about every little thing 24/7.

    It's an abusive relationship.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    anger is a luxury few can afford plus its tiring, talk to him say its driving you away

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    you can't do anything right.
    Is it really that hard to see he is not good for you? will he have to beat you for a couple of years for it to enter your skull? Or will you only satisfied wen he beats youinto a bloody mess for you to think that maybe he is not for you?

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    the fact that he doesn't trust you automatically w/o u ever having been caught lying or cheating (im assuming u havent) is a big red flag that HE is the one that lies and/or cheats. it's psychology. just like a liar doesn't believe anyone, and a thief doesn't trust anyone not to steal. plus he sounds like a royal douche bag in general!!

    I remember an old chinese proverb that said something like, "you can tell the greatness of a man by the importance of what makes him mad" look at his anger and try to figure out how great of a man he is.

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  • Carasaysherro
    12 years ago

    Haha you said 'reckons'. Anyway, leave him. He sounds like a jerk.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Cut your losses and move on, it will only get worse, most of the time! Good luck with your choices!

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    You are in a very abusive relationship. Have you ever told him that he might have an anger problem? He should talk with someone, a professional. Sounds serious.

    And if you're thinking of an actual future with this guy(marriage), don't. You don't wanna get any further in then you already are now. If he's not getting help, this will only get worse. And it could escalate to the point where he starts getting physical. You don't want that.

    Talk to him about it. If he doesn't make any effort to change himself for the better, you need to leave the relationship.

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