Is it normal for a guy to ask to hangout when he has a girlfriend?

This guy who goes to my school added me on facebook and started messaging me and eventually asked for my number. We texted a for a couple day and he was always super nice but not flirty, then he suggested we hang out saying he could pick me up anytime. So we made plans and he suggested we go to the movies or for a walk and then go back to his house. He also said he was worried he would be too shy to talk at first. I thought he was interested in me but I just found out he has a girlfriend... So my question is is it normal for a guy to do to what he did and just want to be friends or is he up to something?

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39% Normal
Based on 225 votes (88 yes)
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Comments ( 20 )
  • DannyKanes

    Oh, he is so into you :D He wants you bad.

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  • Elyod88

    If he wasn't flirty then I assume he wants to be your friend...

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  • imadragon

    It's normal to hangout with people in relationships, but that seems like a little much.

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  • MuteDefiler

    Don't be naive, but don't be too skeptical either.

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  • Zombie4U

    I would not be comfortable , what if he does have a girlfriend and she is crazy or something.

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  • Ryan556

    1/2 likes you 1/2 wants to be friends just roll with it
    If he makes a move he likes you

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  • chatter289

    What an asshole! How would you feel if you were dating him and he was doing what he is doing with you with another girl. If I were you.. Wild be cautious and ASK him if his gf knows about this.. If not.. I'm sorry but I consider it a sort o cheating.. Why spend ALONE time with another chick when you have a gf? If you knew her or you all went out and stuff it wouldn't be as 'bad'.

    I just feel sorry for his gf.

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  • POM

    If you really want to help out, go tell his girlfriend about it. Than he can choose between you two. And at least you will have been honest towards the poor girl.

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  • lemonlove

    He said he didn't have a girlfriend but her profile still says she's in a relationship with him so I really don't know...

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    • Saycheese

      How did you find out he had a girlfriend exactly?

      Also it could be she hasn't been on her facebook for awhile to remove him from her relationship status.

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      • lemonlove

        I knew he had a long term girlfriends from other people who knew him and on his profile there was a post with them calling each other babe and stuff from 2 days before. Yeah I'm hoping that's all it is, since he basically admitted to being interested in me earlier

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        • Saycheese

          Ok, maybe something did happen between them that they broke up. But he could of been lieing too. but the best of luck with you!

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  • Saycheese

    Maybe he just wants to be friends. Also maybe he just wants someone else to hangout with. I hate it when people always assume something before they even really know whats going on. That includes me, some reason I always assume when a guy wants to hangout with me that he wants something more than just a simple friendship.

    Guys seem to do the same thing to me. They always assume that I want them more than a friend, nope! I just like being friendly and nice to people.

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  • piman

    unless theres something that you arent allowed to hang out with a friend thats a girl whem you have a girlfriend then youre normal

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  • Tehboss

    have sex with hi and find out :D

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  • The.Secret.History

    I think he likes you, for sure. However, keep in mind that once a cheater, always a cheater...in other words, if he's doing it to her, he'll do it to you. Good luck with that.

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  • Alison89

    Does his girlfriend know he's hanging out with you? If he's lying to his girlfriend and telling her he's working or studying or something, then I doubt he's on the level.

    Also, have you met his girlfriend? If you tell him you'd like to meet her and he doesn't want you to meet her, it's probably not on the level.

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  • ygrowup

    It's normal, if he is interested in you!

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  • zchristian

    Well theres 2 sides becourse its pretty normal to do that as friends still he could be into you...

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  • Dozis

    That's a stupid question. Everyone is up to something or has been put up to something. You just have to try your best to find out what.
    In this case, it's either he is bi, if you are a male, or he wanted to give you a try.
    Or who knows, maybe he is just a very lonesome guy who could not find anyone else to go watch a movie with. Or maybe he was looking for somebody to engage in a threesome with. He was already engaged when you went out with him or he found this girlfriend of his afterwards? Also: what did you do once you got to his house? Played videogames? Slept together? You just aren't giving me enough informations here. He might be into you for something.
    Maybe he is planning on just using you. Like: maybe he just wanted to hang out with you because he figured out he could scrounge drugs. Or cigarettes. Or a place to stay when he is left out in the cold by those he calls friends.
    Or maybe he just wanted to be nice to you..
    You just aren't giving me enough informations. Maybe you have not even got them. That's why you are asking whether it is normal or not.

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