Is it normal for a guy to act this way..

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So, me and this guy have hooked up a few times. The first time was two years ago this November, he said he really liked me but didn't want a relationship because he'd just come out of one. Which I thought was fair enough! Anyways we had an argument and went our separate ways that January.
The second time was about six or seven months ago because we'd gotten in contact again. He and his girlfriend of the time had split up, so I saw it as a chance to get back in there. We were texting and meeting for a few weeks then it just stopped randomly.
The most recent was we both went to the same party, we bumped into each other
in the hall, his face just lit up and he gave me a massive hug. We were laughing and joking all night and he offered to walk me home and then things got a bit heated. We were texting since then and I got invited to his party on a boat. When he saw me he grabbed my ass and licked my face which I thought was funny so I did it back, but that's the only contact we had the whole night. We were still texting afterwards.
I saw him another week later when I was on my way to a friends house and he was out with his friends. We were walking a bit faster than them, and he asked me to kiss him in front of his friends, when I asked why he just said it would 'boost his ego' ( I later found that his friends think I'm gorgeous ) anyways, later that night when I was on my way home, he text me asking me to meet him. So I did and we went for another walk. When we were talking, he was telling me all the things he liked about me and why ( a little drunk ).
After this night he stopped texting me and I haven't seen him properly since. One of my close girlfriends is quite good mates with him and his best friend. She said that she and Chris
( scotts best friend ) had Been discussing the whole situation between me and Scott. Chris told her that when I text him (Chris), Scott looked over his shoulder at the text and got really annoyed that we were talking. Chris also told her that all of him and his friends had tried to persuade Scott that we should go out. But every time I text him he doesn't reply and when I see him he doesn't even stop for conversation.
Does anyone have a clue what's going on?

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    He's using you when he has nothing better lined up. Plus he can tap some ass and brag to his friends. Pretty obvious.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Seems like he is really good at using you as a booty-call.

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  • TheBoss92
    13 years ago

    *talk to (chris)* sorry about that

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    just sounds like he is using you for a fling and a rebound girl because you hooked up just after he split with a chick. for him to want to kiss you in front of his mates was for show and i find that very disrespectful. personally, i would give him the flick and find a guy who wants to be with you because they want to, not just because he thinks it will look good to his mates.

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  • TheBoss92
    13 years ago

    Yea I agree with everyone else! He is using you. Don't know why because apparently you are gorgeous and why wouldn't he want to be in a relationship with you. I don't know what you should do about this because I never gave any advice about this certain situation. Well I think you should have your friend to (chris) and see whats up.

    I do give a lot of advice but most people think I'm being funny when it comes to giving advice. I mean what I say, so don't think this comment is funny or don't think that I'm being a dick about it. I mean what I say

    Anyway, Best of Luck!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I also forgot to add the fact he stood up in the middle of a party I wasn't at and told everybody everything we'd done together. For no particular reason other than to show he wasn't embarrassed.

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  • Noonesperfect
    12 years ago

    He just wants to fuck you lol.

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  • Mikael
    13 years ago

    bacically its ur decsion if u want to be with him like i mean this is hard it like he likes u but not showing himself so hes kinda of a ass so like him hurt him self but not showing u untill he gives up then u cant tell him that wats so hard about it jux tell me that u like me instead trying to be all cool and act like a bitch like u dont cared but presssshhh like i care dude ur jux basically hurting urself lmfaoguys these days are funny when they act like that lol lmfao hahahaa

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