Is it normal for a guy to..

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Say he likes you, but not talk to you every single time he has free time? He came out and told me I really, really like you and hope you don't mind it. Of course I don't mind, I like him too! I told him I liked him and we talked on the phone and text for hours 2 days straight and then, every other day and when id say, "you dont have to talk to me if you dont like it", he'd respond with, "no, i really like it. sorry, I was busy yesterday".

it's been 2 days now and he hasn't called or text'd me and I did call him once today much earlier - no response. I was friends with him first for 3 weeks...what do you think this is? He hugs all his girl pals, but he kisses me on the cheek when saying good bye and I don't recall him ever doing that to any of his other girl pals... He also says I have a beautiful smile and that I need to show it more..

What is this? Is he pretending to like me, does he not like me, what? His last girlfriend was about 3 months ago and I haven't spotted him with any girlfriends since..trust me..he's been going off with male friends or alone.

I asked him if he likes lots of girls and his response was, "I only like two people at the moment and the only other person i like right now is my ex but she doesn't even want anything to do with me anymore".
Why tell me that? Does he like her more?? She was mean to him though.. I'm always very nice..

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****Also, just fyi, some of the girls he hugs have boyfriends so what does that mean? When he says good bye or, when they're just talking he'll give them a random hug once in a while..He also leans his head on some girls shoulders..but most of them have boyfriends too.. Does he like them or is this just how friendly he is? Do guys do this do they hug girls they are just friendly with? do they lean their head on them?

Normal or not? I know this guy also had a depression problem maybe 4 years back..Not sure how severe but he didn't smile much back then is what I heard. Let me know!

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  • Risen_beauty
    13 years ago

    You are overanalyzing everything and probably scaring the shit out of him. Give him room. Don't suffocate him with attention. Breathe. It's okay.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      I hope so and thanks.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ugh a whole story you already know is normal EVERY FUCKING RELATIONSHIP STORY ON THIS SITE IS NORMAL so please anyone who sees this stop posting relationship stories

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  • Chicko
    12 years ago

    Ok so I honestly didn't read all that but I get the point and it is normal. Im a guy, and have been in your position before. I just moved on. It might not be easy for u to do but it could be helpful. Most likely that's why u haven't been hearing from him as much (cuz he moved on) sad but possibly true :)

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  • rico30
    13 years ago

    Whoever cares less has the most power in the relationship. act like you dont care. he will either come back. or you know your answer..hopefully.

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  • ashelizax
    13 years ago

    clearly, he likes you. he's told you this. several times.

    you're totally overanalyzing the situation. he's a friendly, somewhat flirty guy.. as are most guys. but he likes YOU. not them.

    guys don't like to be crowded, so give him a little space. asking him if he still wants to talk to you is really not a good question to ask. that makes him feel crowded, hence why he probably doesn't text you whenever he's free. but again, he likes you. he told you this.

    my suggestion is to just be straight forward and ask the dude out. if he says no, oh well. i'm sure it'll hurt a little bit but at least you're not wasting your time anymore. my guess is he'll probably say yes. what have you got to lose? there are plenty of fish in the sea. :-)

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  • Adam_6996
    13 years ago

    its nothing to do with being friendly..he jus likes flirtin and thinks about his willy most of the time.. and about u, hmmm maybe he does like u actually but dont ever tell a guy 'u dont have to talk to me if u dont like it' personally it jus puts me off even if i like the girl coz i mean im talkin with u for a reason innit wts the point of sayin that..and maybe he jus feels lonely thats y he talks to u but theres still a distance between u 2..so either jus be straight with him and tell him that either something is gona happen between u 2 or not coz u wanna name it..

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    It's soooo FLUFFY!

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  • DwayneHicks
    13 years ago

    Too much to read......next!!

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