Is it normal for a girlfriend to nag you about your interests

I like video games, anime, music, collecting DVDs, ect. I've been obsessed with the singer Aaliyah, since I was a kid and she has something against that. I can't even mention Aaliyah around her with her acting spiteful, and it's annoying. Nobody ever gave me any problems about liking her, not even previous girls that I crushed on. I don't play video games alot but she acts like there's better things to do than to play them. There's times where I just want to chill and play a game but she acts like it's too time consuming. I only play a game for hours when there one out that I like, and that's rarely. I read anime books because I draw anime, and she thinks I could be reading more inspirational stuff. I don't need an inspirational book to get inspired, I get inspired by work from others who do what I'm interested in. I find certain things funny, that she doesn't think is funny, and she tries to make me feel bad for laughing it. What I find funny isn't harsh, it's often random things that I find funny. She's always so technical, she makes it seem like everything has to be done with planning or research.

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Based on 35 votes (16 yes)
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  • NothingxCrazy

    You guys aren't compatible.

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

      this.

      sounds like they refuse to get along

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89

    Maybe she thinks if you met Aaliyah you might actually run away with her, maybe you should mention the fact that Aaliyah is no longer with us?

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  • TyLee

    Neither of you is the bad guy in this situation. You both are so totally different that you are not compatible. You should have a conversation about this and agree to break up and move on. It would be in the best interest of both of you.

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  • lbntuk

    You need to become a man.

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  • alv1592

    Sounds like you're just not compatible. I agree with everyone else - maybe y'all shouldn't be together.

    Doesn't she know that your favourite celebrity is dead? Just saying, it's kinda disrespectful that she gets mad over her.

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  • joybird

    Thank God you said she's a gf and not your wife!

    You are both wasting your time in the wrong relationship. Things like this actually do matter - imagine if you had kids! She would make your life hell and you would resent your lack of free time!

    I agree with the others - move on!

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  • Ono

    There has to be some give and take in relationships, but if she doesn't accept you for you then I'd question why you're in the relationship.

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